Although I agree to you view on this but our intension should be making awareness among female and male that, At the end we (Couple) have to take decision and it should be from bothside towards successful marriage then cripping. All really educated people in india dont have second thought abt it what is been said in above article. But I imphasize on Making relation then breaking it.
Re: good women behind every successful marriage
by abhbhat on Nov 21, 2012 10:01 AM
good woman causes sucess in a mariage. A better woman causes failure in it. But women are a mess. Thats why history taught us to treat them as expensive fragile objects.
Re: Re: good women behind every successful marriage
by vikram raj on Nov 21, 2012 10:07 AM
All species have a tendency to take revange if been troubled, Female are deadleast among all ..
Todays marriages are not working out becos Wifes dont cook. I dont know how my wife's cooking tastes like. Yea she warms bread slice and makes maggie for kid, but i teach my kids to give up both junk food. I propose a different mariage structure for our new west like economy/society. Mariage should be made a group of max 2men 3women. So a man or women can start a marriage and more people can join in the contract as long as it is 2m 3f max. The 5 people can distribute and rotate their home and work and love responsibities. This ratio takes care of the increased population of women and complies with high domestic expenses and work pressure and need to seek multiple traits which single person may not always have.
Re: Re: Todays marriages are not working out becos Wifes dont coo
by abhbhat on Nov 21, 2012 09:36 AM
Well I did not think it that way..rather a 5 man-woman relationships under one roof. But this framework can still accomodate today's marriage definition as well if the household does not want to expand it more than 2 members. Also the children responsibility could be better handled when a lady is pregnant there are other 4 who are earning for her. The only drawback I see with this (other than emotional mess up) that genetically it may be bad idea to let a man produce kids from 2 separate women. May give rise to diseases. But then need to study other animal species and research to confirm that.
Re: Todays marriages are not working out becos Wifes dont cook
by sudhir kumar on Nov 21, 2012 12:22 PM
This structure called joint family existed all along but it is not destroyed and again only husband and wife could have_sex with each other and not with others.
we are more individual societies now who are guided merely by our likes and dislikes.
Accepting a person as he/she is, is the toughest thing to do(specially in a marriage). A lot of arguments between husband and wife are done in a fit of anger, these should not be taken in a literal sense. But the truth is, each MAN wants a beautiful wife who gets along with him & his family, thats all. A typical "MALE EGO" will want her to come out of "her family" feelings and adjust to his family (irrespective of which is better). But of what I have seen, it is a woman's sacrifice (i am referring to a wife here) which moulds the family as one. Being a mother/caretaker/wife/daughter-in-law is a very tiresome task and without the support of the husband, the marriage is as good as dead......!
