ppl who believe that a girl wearing short clothes is giving an invitation for raping her are totally crazy and backward in their thinking....why can't men in India ever respect women and stop doing such hideous acts...and Mr.Sanath...what do u mean by "Drink at home if u shud (till the govt opens ladies only bars), drink decently and alone and go to sleep. Forget pubs !",it's just becoz of ppl like u that these things keep happening....why don't u give this same advice to guys who can't control their libido,if it's guys who can't control themselves then they should be punished,beaten to death and they should be given proper treatment(and by treatment I mean anything ranging from beating them to hanging them till death) until they learn how to control.....years have passed by and men have always told women what to do,told women to change so as to fit with men, its time that men should change their attitude and start behaving like proper humans and also start accepting women as their partners rather than some creatures over whom they can rule as they want...
Re: Pirate
by hema kargeti on Apr 24, 2009 11:32 PM
Wow. What a quote!!! If a girl wearing short clothes is not inviting enough, then a girl only in bikini or swimming costumes also should be inviting. RIGHT? So, why not wear only such bikinies etc? U stupid bugger, Accept the problem as it is. SHort clothes always have bad influence...
Re: Pirate
by Anand YNI on Apr 24, 2009 11:58 PM
Hi Guest,
What you have written is possible only when the men undergo castration. Why do you think God gave the men the testicles and lots of testosterone? One should be a sanyasi to practice what you have preached. Unfortunately, such people are less than one in a million in the world today.
Re: Re: Pirate
by anita r on Apr 25, 2009 12:00 AM
Dear Hema and Siddartha, I was reading about a man who a raped a four year old girl and a mentally handicapped girl but then as you said short clothes always have bad influence so I guess when children and mentally handicapped people get raped it's their own fault for wearing short clothes.
Re: Re: Re: Pirate
by GIRIN PEGU on Apr 25, 2009 01:48 AM
Dear Anita, this peoples especially hema,siddharta and anand are pshycos or may be they donot have sisters or mothers at their home.rape should never be tolerated and those involved should be castrated.
Re: make it mandatory
by abraham mathews on Apr 25, 2009 10:57 AM
Shaikh, the Talibanis chop off the dicku for rape! They r envious that others have a full weapon and they have only half!
Re: make it mandatory
by ss sk on Apr 23, 2009 03:25 PM
NO this is not the only solution. This is the barbaric way to solve the problem. It can be acceptable in Mid-East (arabian) mind set not in the free and democratic world like us. Problem lies in the human consciousness. Sexual urge is natural but one must know the difference between the consensual sex and the forcible sex (rape).
Re: Re: make it mandatory
by hema kargeti on Apr 24, 2009 11:35 PM
But what if A man asks several girls for dating ( in this way for sex) and only gets rejected. Will not he rape next time? My dear fellow, sex is a need, and the real solution might be freesex, or atleast legalised prostitution.
Re: Re: make it mandatory
by shaikhhamid on Apr 23, 2009 03:51 PM
ss sk in most of the rape cases the culprits were drunk...and all knows once u got drunk u lost conciousness....
Re: Re: Re: make it mandatory
by SIVAKUMAR on Apr 23, 2009 05:58 PM
If a person is drunk will he not know whether the person near him is his sister or mother. U cannot tell that a reason that if u are drunk u will loss conscious
Re: Re: make it mandatory
by GN Sri on Apr 24, 2009 10:43 PM
Exceptional situations call for exceptional actions. Barbaric Crime needs Barbaric ponishments
Re: make it mandatory
by M P on Apr 23, 2009 03:25 PM
I agree with you mate. And even better that in cases where rape is proved, the punishment should be decided by the victim. That would work a great deal in restoring psychological balance in victims mind.
D. Goel Pkl. afternoon, 2.59 pm,Thursday, 23rd April. 2009. The emphasis is not only to make the victim be released from anxiety ,worthlessness and lack of support that beastly injury she has been most undeservedly made to undergo, has left her with. Cognitively the expert must empathise and help her see that it was a dastardly event, that could have happened to anybody, and the victim is in no way need to feel humiliated for the accident. All this said,we must not overemphasize the social consequences to her own reference group and buttress soonest ,there , the restoration of her self-esteem.D. Goel
Be it India or anywhere in the world , the mightiest always dictates the world ,coming to women and children since physiologically they are weaker - we see lot of crime against them as they are the most vulnerable. We can't stop such crimes unless we make the vulnerable ones the more mightier -- very harsh punishments for those who mess with the weaker ones.
Re: Basic theory among all species
by ss sk on Apr 23, 2009 03:20 PM
Half true. What we need is consciousness with greater responsibility. Whats wrong if u r mighty remain mighty and weaker remain weaker in appearance or in power. Masculine and Feminine both are ok at their own places. Dont compare in terms of muscle power. Dont try to impose ur ideas on them, dont try to hide them behind veil in pretext of modesty and right dress, this.. that.. let them live their life with their own understanding and according to their own choices.
