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'How do I jump into bed with someone I don't know?'

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V Nagarajan
That's the reason?
by V Nagarajan on Jan 25, 2018 04:42 PM

That's the reason they had 5 days wedding in olden days,with girl seeing ceremony and Nischtartham etc where the boy and girl got to know each other.
Today we have abbreviated everything and that's the problem?

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And I though it was only about a Jump ;)
by Ravi on Mar 07, 2014 11:26 AM

But it was more than about a Jump...
So can we use this as a solution...go to bed and jump like kids do...have pillow fight...have a laugh...just follow the flow....
Disclaimer: I didnt try the above with my arranged partner but we were a different couple at different time...Do it on your risk...:)

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by MM on Mar 07, 2014 11:04 AM  | Hide replies

Just few decades ago, situation was different. Crimes against women were less. Since last decade, some one deliberately destroyed our culture by brainwashing the youth (particularly ladies) and systematically introduced Boy-girl friend, live-in, Valentines culture etc. in our society. I am sure this must have been done by some Christian foreign power, ruling at the center.


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giri shah
Re: Culture
by giri shah on Mar 07, 2014 11:18 AM
fully agree. otherwise why should for eg. our advertisements, every talk show on TV etc. explicitly keep mentioning boy friend and girl friend.

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Dona Paula
This facebook generation is doomed
by Dona Paula on Mar 07, 2014 10:54 AM

Why don't you ask your mother and grandmother ? I am sure they will clear any ambiguity in this regard.

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franklin wilson
is that
by franklin wilson on Mar 06, 2014 11:43 PM

Is that a philosophical question or do you just want to know how ?

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Amit vyas
Arranged marriages are also good.
by Amit vyas on Mar 06, 2014 11:43 PM

There is no difference once you get married, whether its arranged or love marriage. Marriage take difference skills and commitment to be successful. Except for Dowry system and unnecessary wedding expenditure and rituals ,everything else is fine in arranged marriage.

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What's the big deal?
by Santa on Dec 16, 2013 09:50 AM

Know first and then jump. Who is asking you to jump right on the first night of wedding?

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