It can't be that good or that bad. As time passes I hope the bonding may get stronger. But it all depends on how both man and woman feel for it from the commitment perspective. However with more women in the work force, man may have to adjust more to help the situation. Marriage has emotional and physical side. Emotional side is very very critical, as the physical side may become different as we get older. It's the attitude, the feeling for the other person and the commitment make a marriage pass thru the turbulence. An arranged marriage or marriage via dating both has it's limitations. Physical Intimacy shud never be the objective, as u learn each other more it may get better.
Why consider having children an inevitable part of life?
What is so wrong any longer about not having children at all?
And if there is no intention to have children, why marry at all unless one wishes from the bottom of one's heart to do so?
Not marrying and not having children would just be great for the country and its beaten-to-pulp and getting-beaten-to-pulp-more-and-more-each-day environment!
Not having children and not marrying would actually be great for a greater proportion of men and women than one might actually think!
Not having children and not marrying would simply be great for relieving some of the tremendous pressure on the pittance that the country has as resources!
Not having children would just be tremendously great for individuals who are creatively inclined and find it hard to devote as much time as they would like to devote on their calling!
More and more men and women not having children would simply be great for an obsessively family centric society as India to inject a big and much needed dose of civility!
Not having children would just simply be very great to devote a bigger share of the pitiable resources the nation has on the vast multitudes of poverty stricken children who are perpetual fixtures in almost every corner of the country!
Re: Why marry at all?
by Santa on Dec 14, 2013 10:15 AM
There's no connection between marrying and having children. However, there's a strong connection between children born out of wedlock and depressed / strayed generation of young people.
As mentioned by others why single-minded intention of jumping into bed the moment tie the knot, wait till know each other and then.....why jump like a monkey, quietly slip into bed!
Re: Re: about arranged marriage
by chris on Dec 13, 2013 09:08 AM
I know of 10 out of 10 couple who had courted for more than 5 years and then married and parted ways in 5 to 10 years after marriage. Not even concerned what affect it'd on their children many end up having mild to severe psychological problems!
Re: Re: Re: about arranged marriage
by n pramod on Dec 13, 2013 11:59 PM | Hide message
i know thousands of couples who are happily married through arranged system.
this author is a dumb..he thinks marriage is just about sleeping in bed...but its about bringing families together...which will lead to strong nation.
bad always gets into head faster...and thats what happening...
these guys could not k1ll the religion now they want to k1ll the culture.
Re: Re: Re: about arranged marriage
by n pramod on Dec 14, 2013 12:00 AM | Hide message
i know thousands of couples who are happily married through arranged system.
this author is a dumb..he thinks marriage is just about sleeping in bed...but its about bringing families together...which will lead to strong nation.
bad always gets into head faster...and thats what happening...
these guys could not k1ll the religion now they want to k1ll the culture.
Re: about arranged marriage
by RAJU subramani on Dec 14, 2013 01:38 PM
i see more problems and divorces and orphan children in love marriages than in arranged marriages
Re: Re: about arranged marriage
by vasudeva rao on Dec 14, 2013 10:32 PM
U R absolutely right. Arranged marriages last for longer period compared to love marriage.
That means you need Million Dollar to do that. Can't you clean your cloths with 5 Rs Arial in morning after all that same guy is also going to sleep with unknown person too.
Plz do not do this, if you feel this way!!!
In US no girl can imagine about getting married without sleeping 10 unknown people.
Re: It means you need Million Dollar for it!!!
by chris on Dec 13, 2013 09:19 AM
What a fantastic idea, as we go on blindly aping the west as where a million go to sleep without anything into their stomach, inflation cruising on to double digit, industrial output down, exports contracts but we are more concerned with the Supreme Court ruling on sexual preferences of an individual!!!!
Re: It means you need Million Dollar for it!!!
by Vineet Nagar on Dec 15, 2013 08:08 AM
You are living in the cave. Get out of it. Read and understand and respect other cultures. If Indian culture was so good then why they were will be so many rapes in India and why every Indian is willing to give his life just to be able to go to America? Think of it.
