This is not an issue where solutions are simple. Just trying to say that Arranged marriages are all bull is not right either. If understanding was an important issue, why is it that there have been major failures even in Love marriages, that too after the couple dated each other for years. Marriage is an institution of "understanding", when that is missing, marriage fails. Faults are attributed to the system rather than to the individuals.
Arranged marriages are there for centuries. Now, If one is finding problems with well tested system, there is something wrong with one. Do not imitate baseless western culture.
The act ofSexualIntercourse is a natural act just like any other bodily function, and a requirement for a normal couple, since human beings are probably the onlyAnimal on earth who can perform this act forPleasure alone.
Given this background, I believe it's a seriously over-rated/ over-hyped act, and there is way too much pressure around it. Once you get married, you realize that togetherness as a family, and that person being there for you matter a lot more thanSex
My advice- be natural. Have fun, and realize thatSex is just a small (and not the most important) part of your relationship
Re: TheHypedAct
by prakash vasudev nayak on Dec 16, 2013 07:57 AM
Seriously and completely agree with you dear. Have myself had a turbulent relationship ending up in bitter divorce as my wife did not agree on this unlike me.
