.. if you break up with someone.. take a deep breath, have a beer, shave or try a new make up go ahead and look for a new partner. Life is too precious - remember the goal is to have as much fun as you can take.
You can make Facebook part of your life but the problem starts when your life become a part of Facebook.
For instance: you can share your life experiences on FB and move on in life. But if you start creating some experiences or the other just for the sake of charing it on FB - Now that where problems start. Bottomline: Your life shouldn't be so vulnerable that Facebook status and comments and likes and dislikes effect your life. If they do, you should reply back in kind and break the connection and MOVE ON in life.
Re: Life shouldn't be FB.. / FB may be part of your life.
by Nirjhar Pal on Sep 24, 2011 11:13 AM
correct, in-mature ppls wont understnad this thing, and act opposite...
Sorry to hear about the demise of this girl. But why the hell dad allowed his daughter to have a boyfriend? He didn't mind his girl officially dating and hanging out before the marriage? boyfriend girlfriend crap is just temprory and both the parties knows it. Why the hell now they are charging the guy? Just because he dumped her? Girls father should be able to differentiate between boyfriend and fiance/husband.
Re: why dad allowed boyfriend?
by amitav ghosh on Sep 24, 2011 02:10 AM
the boy should gulp down a few pills before the police and then sue the cops for his death. LOL
Re: Re: why dad allowed boyfriend?
by amitav ghosh on Sep 24, 2011 02:11 AM
she died because it hurt her ego. she couldnt take it that a girl from IIM b'lore got dumped. one crezy BI%$H
Re: Re: Re: why dad allowed boyfriend?
by amitav ghosh on Sep 24, 2011 02:15 AM
she was sooo sad because of the breakup that she had the time to write something on teh white board and then die. Pleaseee people give me a break. everyday someone gets dumped (boy or girl) if everyone starts hanging themselves then all the boys and the girls will be behind bars (if the world works on Indian Law) LOL
Re: why dad allowed boyfriend?
by Common Sense on Sep 24, 2011 02:14 AM
Having a boyfriend is not the problem here. Making herself so vulnarable to someone trashing her on FB that she went on to commit suicide is the problem. She could have committed suicide even after getting married to this guy if the guy goes on to post some trach on FB insulting her. She needs to have guts to handle such situations. If she doen't.., then don't use FB. FB is not for weak hearted.
Re: Re: why dad allowed boyfriend?
by chappathi on Sep 24, 2011 03:44 AM
She is so stupid to take her own life on an issue like this...complete lack of confidence & lack of mental strength and the irony is, she is student of IIM
Its very very unfortunate. My sympathies to the family. However the article looked like Pagalguy ad, also there was no need of writing real name or adding the persons FB page. Arresting the guy for using abusive language, Abusive language=Cold blooded Murder??? What??? Do police and ppl watch reality shows, what language ppl use on TV these days?? Shud everyone be charged for Cold blooded Murder?? I dont want to comment on the girls action and wish heavens embrace her but she made everyones' (close to her, including the boys')life a living hell, intentionally or unintentionally. Hope everyone copes well from here.
Re: Abusive Language= Cold blooded Murder.... What????
by sameers on Sep 24, 2011 01:14 AM
Syed Moin
Well said. Clearly, we can see that she draws her stup1dity genes from her father. The father instead of pondering where he went wrong in her upbringing is blaming the guy for E-breakup ?
Ok... what was this report about? I do not understand. It is because a girl was depressed and a very unfortunate thing happened...or she had 746 friends among whom not even one checked on her based on her fb profile page or one close enough she could talk to... becoz PaGaLGuy can analyze a person based on her FB profile... or jus plain ad for Pagalguy?
The privacy that is being ensured by these internet social networking sites can be misused to any dangerous limits.
This is just one of many such case. Never never ever trust anyone on internet social network sites. As in "NEVER!".
Meet people in real. Build relationships with people in real life. Thats the best way to build your own personality and lead a healthy social life at the same time.
I seriously hope the younger generation takes this point very seriously in their life.
