Very Sensitive people are unfit for love...bcos somewhere down the line people are bound to get bored of each other...and generally guys(being a guy I know this well) always want bahar ki biryani!!!
Re: FACEBOOK BANNED IN PAKISTAN
by Charvak Chanyakk on Sep 23, 2011 05:38 PM
Very logical move. Their faith does not allow FACE to be seen. Even photographs are Taboo in principal. There is only ONE book of importance. When you have Face and Book togather, it could not be tolerated.
I am not sure if having 726 friends in facebook is that normal - that too for a student who is studying in a high pressure institute. I think there was some emotional imbalance somewhere.
Also.. no need to advertise as IITian or IIM student. I can almost confidently guess that she is an entry via quota system.
Re: Normal?
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 05:23 PM
Ashish
thats what it looks like. She must be some quota student who got in. This is whats scary, we have tards like her getting into the cream based on quota.
Re: Re: Normal?
by EmKay on Sep 23, 2011 05:35 PM
Look at you 2 "forward" caste guys!! How intelligently making assumption about a dead girl and even calling her a tard! Shame on you both...how much lower can one go?
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 05:40 PM
emkay, do not bring castism here. If you are advetising yourself to be super intelligent to crack IIM, you must tell the complete truth. What caste you belong to is not a problem - problem is advertising you as the cream layer student which you are not!! I had a mate in IIT KGP who despite being eligible for quota declined it and took admission in whatever his general category rank allowed him to. I have highest regard for him.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by EmKay on Sep 23, 2011 05:46 PM
@ashish - Has the dead girl advertised herself to be some super intelligent person? Where did she advertise? You are saying things which are not very relevant to the topic. A touch of humanness goes a long way in life...
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 05:53 PM
emkay,
look at her father's comment about she being very good student because she got admission into so many colleges. I am not sure if he said that or it is made by rediff but I commenting with regards to that only.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by EmKay on Sep 23, 2011 05:57 PM
So, the moment a father says his dead daughter was intelligent, you are out there to hound them to see her transcripts and rank in GMAT? Really man?? Is that how people behave now a days? You guys are scaring me!
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 06:01 PM
No.. I do not. But if the intelligence is proved by referring to IIM admission- I do. Please note I did not bring IIM into picture and as long as you do not bring that - say thousand good words.. no issue. Truth must be completed - that is it.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by EmKay on Sep 23, 2011 06:06 PM
@ashish - good luck to you in your life. IIM is not the issue here. The issue here is a girl committed suicide because her boyfriend broke up with her on FB. And your entire post is about accusing her of using quota and stories about how your friend declined to take admission into IIT K... I mean, please...not even sure what to say...
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 05:46 PM
Emkay
I am sorry, but I have no respect for the ones that get admission based on quota. They do not deserve it in any angle.
The family they belong too is usually well off and they take advantage of the crappy system.
Tell you what, I don't believe in casteism except for the time when i have to go to the doctor. Thats when I make sure that the doctor is upper caste, because he/she would have earned their degree because of their intellect and not because of quota. Why would anyone risk their lives by going to a doctor that qualified on quota. Chances are that due to their limited ability , you will end up 6 feet under.
And I have ABSOLUTELY no pity for the girl. She was stup1d and i thank her for ending her innings of stup1dity on earth
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 06:15 PM
EmKAy
I am speculating that she must be some quota student who got into IIM. Because anyone who earned their way into IIM, would know the value of their hardwork and have lot more maturity.
Her Immature action, has led me to speculate that sh might be a quota person who always got everything in life based on the quota and hence buckled at the first sign of adversity.
Either that or the quality of students in IIM has gone down the drain.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 05:51 PM
well said Sameer. That is our country. When we are speaking about the quota system, people would invariably play the castism card - proves why such corrupt goverments and poltiicians survive years after years
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Vinayak Deshpande on Sep 24, 2011 11:08 AM
fully agree with you. in fact we should make it mandatory for doctors to write Q in their degree depicting they are quota doctors. So one is free to decide whether still to take risk or go for right doctor.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Vinayak Deshpande on Sep 24, 2011 11:09 AM
fully agree with you. in fact we should make it mandatory for doctors to write Q in their degree depicting they are quota doctors. So one is free to decide whether still to take risk or go for right doctor.
Re: Re: Normal?
by BP on Sep 23, 2011 05:38 PM
@ashish, @sameer Shame on you guys for being judgemental and presumptious wihout any facts. Just because she had 726 "friends" on FB, you form a derogratory opinion about a person who is not in this world to defend herself ?? By that very token, I can play an armchair phsychologist and judge your respective upbringing and your respective parents from that as easily as you have done here. GROW UP!!
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 05:49 PM
BP
I am sorry, but she committed a horribly stup1d act. Such acts should be rightly ridiculed and not empathized. To add icing to the cake , her father filed case against the guy for E-Abuse !
Seriously, that goes a long way to show how tarded the entire family is.
Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 05:43 PM
this is the horrible mentality of people here. None is questioning the caste but if her relaives are advertising her as super intelligent because she got into IIM, the complete truth must be spoken. Say all good things abt her - no problem, but if you bring entry into IIM into picture-just say the medium as well. that is it.
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 05:46 PM
even if there was an upper caste quote system in India and she got admission via that route, I would exactly say the same thing.Being from any parituclar caste is a not a problem, gettign admission is not a problem either but advertising yourself as the top notch student just because you got entry via backdoor is a problem
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by zaad on Sep 23, 2011 05:58 PM
If no Good still Dont criticize the dead people in a Bad manner..Your comment speaks how your family raised you
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by zaad on Sep 23, 2011 06:00 PM
If no Good still Dont criticize the dead people in a Bad manner..Your comment speaks how your family raised you
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by rajiv kumar on Sep 23, 2011 06:32 PM
Ashish... valid logic.. the present reservation system is a political move .. which majority of people are not understanding..either they support it (beng from bw community) or they hate it(FW community).... Its creatinng a society of mediocres at the cost of meritocracy... which is paving way for this country to go for another 200 yrs possibly under china
Re: Normal?
by mayur on Sep 23, 2011 06:05 PM
Ashish and Samir, I can show you 100s of upper caste girls on face book having more that 1000 friend come out of your old age crap mentality. No wonder why peoples hates brahmins.
Re: Re: Normal?
by mayur on Sep 23, 2011 06:06 PM
Ashish and Samir, I can show you 100s of upper caste girls on face book having more that 1000 friend come out of your old age crap mentality. No wonder why peoples hates you brahmins upper caste.
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 06:18 PM
Mayur
Dimwit, Who is arguing that having 700 plus friends on face book is bad ? IT IS A SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE for crying out loud. If anything you should have as many FB friends as you can.
Maybe you should learn to comprehend better before you talk.
Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by ashish on Sep 23, 2011 06:34 PM
It is so sad that in India, we people wait in the wings to play the caste card at the drop of a hat.
Where is the rule that a dead person can not be criticised? Has history stopped criticising somene just because they are dead?
The girl's act must be criticised instead of showing her as a victim to educate the younger generation and in order to to desist them from doing such stupid act in future. The social netoworking site is not all that life offers - how do you say that if you start worshipping such acts?
Re: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
by rajiv kumar on Sep 23, 2011 06:38 PM
) on Sep 23, 2011 06:32 PM Ashish... valid logic.. the present reservation system is a political move .. which majority of people are not understanding..either they support it (beng from bw community) or they hate it(FW community).... Its creatinng a society of mediocres at the cost of meritocracy... which is paving way for this country to go for another 200 yrs possibly under china
Re: Re: Normal?
by Vinayak Deshpande on Sep 24, 2011 11:39 AM
see our upper class girls are inteliigenet and can maintain 1000s friends. doesnot matter 1dits like you hate us. go and clean toilet - you people deserve that
Re: Normal?
by SRG on Sep 24, 2011 02:04 PM
Without judging this girl for her actions, we can definitely guess that she got into IIM via quota. If you google surname Murmu, you will see that the said name generally belongs to Santhal Tribes of Chhatisgarh. (Aadivasis)
In a country like India, which is biased to Womenkind...we men have to be alert when dealing with them. Also it is the girls fault to take the extreme step. When the girl's daddy knew all this why he kept quiet beats me. Also How COME A GIRL SUCH A COWARD BE ADMITTED TO IIM. According to me IIM admission is itself flawed. Nobody can be held responsible if one decides to end ones life. Well as a matter of fact we ourselves face criticism in all walks of life but that does not mean that we end our life. For me the laws should be changed and the person committing suicide should be deemed A NATIONAL COWARD.
Also we know love is blind...I cannot comment further on this as both the guy as well as the gal is at fault...
Even an IIM person is not able to with stand a small pressure of her ;over ditching her. This is a shame of our education system. It may be that she is carried away by the material happiness.
Even an IIM person is not able to with stand a small pressure of her ;over ditching her. This is a shame of our education system. It may be that she is carried away by the material happiness.KMpEW
Re: what rubbish
by V SR on Sep 23, 2011 05:23 PM
Gentleman: It may be nonsense for you, irrelevant for me and boring for someonelse. But such info is very relevant and a lesson for those who are serious into facebook, twitter and all. Socialising is fun.. fine. But it also has it advserse effects and in todays, student world, they should know how to behave and control themselves, even in adverstities to be succesful in their career. Handling adversities only in exams will not do.
If you dont like it, dont read it.
I have seen, countries like Singapore, Australia, Denmark, Sweden, Germany.. such news are given proper attention and also presented very well. Times London, have columns focusing on relationship and adverse effects on every friday.
Re: Re: what rubbish
by Sameer on Sep 23, 2011 05:29 PM
VSR
They can afford to do so , since their population rate is down and they can afford to have stup1ds among their culture.
We however need the stup1ds to kill themselves in whatever means asap. Hence no need to discourage such actions , since such actions are positive in nature.
