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Do you handle break-ups like Devdas?


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vishnu priya
When everything fades away
by vishnu priya on Jun 14, 2009 08:44 PM

Why you said you Love me when you' later had to ask me... To go away from you...The pain you gave me, left me all broken..broken.. I love you so much that i went away from myself to see you Happy ....

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mohammed shahjahan
Devdas in shah say's
by mohammed shahjahan on Mar 10, 2009 03:29 PM

Never ever love a girl just for her being so sweet face go on her attitude.so you won't fall pray easily give her enough time to prove herself,
If thrown on you some chalenge regarding career, etc try to overcome on that as well,
approach her dad ask him what he want in him / daughter-in-law.
In this way you'll get enough time to get rid of greedy ppl around you as well as this principle will fetch you success in life by reading others thought in the mean time..
best of luck.
shahjahan(still bachelor)
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ranganathan n
I am missing her
by ranganathan n on Feb 16, 2009 07:37 AM

Hi guys I am one of you. But my story is totally different. When I was in nagpur I joined a marketing company called Nexus creation. there my lover proposed me, but I ingnored because I was devdas of college love. But somehow I thought that she could be my best partner. I accept it after few months.But when I except that my thinking totally changed. I want to get settled in my life. I left Nagpur and went to my native place in order to go abroad and get settled in life after few years with her. Unfortunatly I went to malaisia thats a big story but in short I was misused in malaisia. Anyway My life is gone, thats why I started ignoring her by saying false statement that I got married. I said because I dont want her to suffer with me. I was totally down. But because of me brother I am now somehow OK. But no use. For whom I struggeled she is gone from my life. I missed her number and everything. Now everything is there but she is not in my life. I dam sure that she is still not married...Where u my darling I love you forever and my all life is sacrify for you......Tujphe eh jindagi kurban meri jaan..

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suprative ganguly
I got shattered into pieces...
by suprative ganguly on Feb 12, 2009 07:25 PM

hi guys...i too have experienced such thing in my life...i loved a girl, even more than my life and i will continue loving her throughout my life...she was also head over heels in love with me..but after sudden death of her mom, things changed. Her dad didnt liked me (as she told me) and thats why she dumped me..i dont know what the real reason is..but i got shattered into pieces...I Love u sweetheart and will continue to love u till my last breath...

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khurram khan
I lost her...
by khurram khan on Feb 12, 2009 04:26 PM  | Hide replies

Hello frnds,
This is Lucky here, please dont go on my name..in reality i'm unlucky..I was in a love with gal. she is studying in same university from which i had done my MIB, but i found her one year later on net, we become a good friends, then she proposed me. At that time i was struggling here in delhi for job, i got her support and care. We met first time in Feb, she have to buy books from JNU. we both went there and i bought her a book.
Later we met many times, but in my third meeting i saw her face, as she wear burqha..With a great hesitation i took her permission to hold her hand.Then we met quite a number of time every sunday we use to meet, she bring food cooked by herself for me as she knw that I 'm living alone here and I hardly get a homemade food.We were living our life happily.
I never stopped her or bound her in making friends whether it may be gal or guy. and she alwaz bounds me in doing same, and i follw wat she says everytime..uske liye I left all my frnds...but i was happpy ke i found someone with whom i can marry, meine apne ghar pe bhi sabko keh diya ki I'll marry her only.This is her last year of her graduation and i decided to marry her.
But suddenly things become worst, and she found some1 else.Its a long story so cannt tell, so this month i dont have her.and i'll miss her on VD

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mohsin ansari
Love = Life
by mohsin ansari on Feb 12, 2009 03:34 PM  | Hide replies

As i had seen you are advicing to multiple people, i want to share my problems with you. We both love each other from last 7 years. Last month i had sent a maariage propsal to her parents but they rejected, As they all know every thing about we too.. My GF is continous aarguing with them for saying Yes to us.But they are not ready.. I dont have any Idea what shall i do. In last 37 days... i m very much confused & i had done useless things also for her.. & I just want to have to talk with my GF & that i had not done from last 35 days... Please Advice my Self.. waiting for earliest reply..

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mohsin ansari
Re: Love = Life
by mohsin ansari on Feb 12, 2009 04:09 PM
any one is having a answer or Suggestion? Advice..

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Ajay Kumar
Re: Re: Love = Life
by Ajay Kumar on Feb 14, 2009 12:26 AM
mohsin, if you guys have done your best to appease your parents and no result, you are only left with option to courage to marry on your own and it is a right thing to stood to what you think.

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Ajay Kumar
Re: Re: Love = Life
by Ajay Kumar on Feb 14, 2009 12:23 AM
My friend, it is common problem with lovers. Some time you need to stnad for what you think. If they don't agree you have two options, 1. Courage...get married yourself ( I hope you both are adult and you are in good condition as per job to survive).
2. Put your feet down.

I have been through this phase and I opted first option, I am male and here it was opposite, my parents were not ready. I stood by what I felt right. It never means that you never care your parents but you are strong enough to think what should you do. If your GF doesn't agree then sorry you are left with option 2 only.

By the way, do your best before using option 1.

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