Re: cant forget her still
by Guest on Feb 10, 2009 10:22 AM
Have been there buddy, and it happens with guys when they are totally into it. You have put your mind onto something else, dream big, try to achieve a bigger thing. And tell yourself that everything happens for a reason and for good. Trust me, you have better things ahead. Hang on there!
I think everyone has their own way of dealing with getting dumped. Sometimes the wounds are so deep that it takes a long time to get over it. Others are able to just take it in their stride and move on. A lot depends on the character of the person I reckon, and also on how deep the roots of the relationship are. But at the end of the day life has to move on...
I did have a phase of Devdas, but luckily i was able to come out of it, much wiser. When i look back it was the stupidest phase of my life,drinking depression and what not. But now i am happy that it is my past, and its natural to feel bad, but look at you from above, get the big picutre, you have the whole world before you. Get up and keep walking.!!!
Well, if you find someone not responding to your feelings or someone dumping you.... do not feel sad! It's a big loss for the other person as (s)he has rejected someone who loved him/her truely. Just close the matter by reminding yourself that you are destined to have someone better.. someone who will love you even more!
