my inlaws are really bad..... dey r intrudng into our personal life. my hubby shares even our bedroom secrets wth dem. de dowry thngs which ma fathr gve 2 me r wth my inlaws, dey r nt ready 2 gve back 2 me even though i askd 4 many times..... my MIL used 2 inject poison 2 my hubby. my hubby s nt ready to visit my parents nd sistrs nd nt even ready 2 make a call 2 dem.... bt he want me 2 stay wth his parents even though he s nt wth me !!!!!! i'm fed up wth ma married life..... my hubby s nt ready 2 make an a/c for me..... he s nt ready 2 discuss the future plans wth me. he nd his father s decidng all dose things.... all de money thngs are dealng by his father only... nd all de decisions r made by my MIL.... I'm fed up wth ma married life..... i jst want 2 end my life.... lost all ma hope, dreams nd vrythng.....
After marriage i have seen the true face of the society.In laws expects too much if u will fulfill them they will demand more ,if not they will get frustarted and try to attack your relationship with ur husband nd also with ur own parents. they think now they are the owner of the your's life and you have to do what they want.
After marriage i have seen the true face of the society.In laws expects too much if u will fulfill them they will demand more ,if not they will get frustarted and try to attack your relationship with ur husband nd also with ur own parents. they think now they are the owner of the your's life and you have to do what they want.
ours is love marriage i got married last 10 months back the very big problem is mother in law she is spoiling our relationship and bcos of her we both r not able to be happy and my husband always says i have responsibilities as a son and i can never change but it is hurting me a lot i have left every one come just by believing my husband but this evil in law is killing my life i just hate her and i am going mad i cant share my husband with such kind of people who dont have even min respect and even if i die also she dont care that much that evil has insulted me i know how painfull it was to over come that and when ever i have tried to forget her mistakes she has started the new one and has hurted me to deapth and now there is one chance of forgiving her and no entry for her in our life...
ours is love marriage i got married last 10 months back the very big problem is mother in law she is spoiling our relationship and bcos of her we both r not able to be happy and my husband always says i have responsibilities as a son and i can never change but it is hurting me a lot i have left every one come just by believing my husband but this evil in law is killing my life i just hate her and i am going mad i cant share my husband with such kind of people who dont have even min respect and even if i die also she dont care that much that evil has insulted me i know how painfull it was to over come that and when ever i have tried to forget her mistakes she has started the new one and has hurted me to deapth and now there is one chance of forgiving her and no entry for her in our life...
ours is love marriage i got married last 10 months back the very big problem is mother in law she is spoiling our relationship and bcos of her we both r not able to be happy and my husband always says i have responsibilities as a son and i can never change but it is hurting me a lot i have left every one come just by believing my husband but this evil in law is killing my life i just hate her and i am going mad i cant share my husband with such kind of people who dont have even min respect and even if i die also she dont care that much that evil has insulted me i know how painfull it was to over come that and when ever i have tried to forget her mistakes she has started the new one and has hurted me to deapth and now there is one chance of forgiving her and no entry for her in our life...
ours is love marriage i got married last 10 months back the very big problem is mother in law she is spoiling our relationship and bcos of her we both r not able to be happy and my husband always says i have responsibilities as a son and i can never change but it is hurting me a lot i have left every one come just by believing my husband but this evil in law is killing my life i just hate her and i am going mad i cant share my husband with such kind of people who dont have even min respect and even if i die also she dont care that much that evil has insulted me i know how painfull it was to over come that and when ever i have tried to forget her mistakes she has started the new one and has hurted me to deapth and now there is one chance of forgiving her and no entry for her in our life...
My husband and I got married in 2007 and right now we live with my parents. Some of his family I kinda of don't like when I first got married to my husband I basically found out that his parents are gamblholics and use all the money they have for that and when they don't have money they come to him and ask for like one thousand or so with us and they don't even care. It just pisst me off sometimes cause my husband should just tell his mother that we have bills and a baby to take care of too and she should be considerate and not ask for money basically my husabnd's always there for his family but when he need him or if we didn't have enough money for bills or whatever we can never turn to his family, my parents are the ones that help us out and another thing I hate is that when he do go visit his family all they do is gamble and drink alcholo all day and I don't want him around that type of enviroment beacuse he needs to stop I want to have things in life like a house and stuff I just feel like his parents never taught him anything cause their so busy with themselves and all they care about is money. One time his mother asked him for 1,500.00 to pay for rent and it just pisst me off because I have so much bill to pay and he just gave it to her she told him that if she didnt get the money that they'll kick her and his other sibling out of the house. I seriously don't believe that is the reason and another thing he have like 3 siblings that live with his parents and why can't th
Re: Someone
by Guest on Sep 01, 2008 09:30 AM
My problem is somewhat same as before. Me and my husband had 8 month old baby. We have mortgage,household bill,etc..I'm studying right now and he is supporting me. My in laws always ask money for lavish things and my husband never ask why.. he will give without any question..because of this lot of times we got into fight. He fights with me for every penny that I don't have money so he doesn't allow me buy anything..Now I can sense him his love for me is getting less. I'm really depressed with no help from anyone..studying taking care of baby,household..Now I made decision to separate and live as single parent. I don't like to fight with this issue every time. I love my husband so much and I'm really confused Please help me what to do? My Parents expired I have nobody to talk to. I feel sometime to end my life because of my baby I'm living..
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by Guest on Dec 20, 2008 02:11 AM
Ending life is not the solution. I am also married for 6 years ( love marriage) with two small kids. I also feel very much stressed out because of wife-parents and in laws issues. I try to calm my self down when ever I confront these situations and then take it from there. I don't suggest to let things go as they are but atleast one should not make decisions in anger or frustration. I can not live without my wife,kids and parents. so I have to work out a solution. Even I know that may never happen and by the time, I find solution, I might be parent of grown up and then understand what my parents go through now. But then I guess that's called "LIFE".
