I think the success of arranged marraiges depends on ur affection towards ur parents and ur family. We Indians always try to copy the west , but we particularly the young generation forgets that our parents who have done everything for us wants their child to settle down with a spouse that they think is the best for their child.
No parent wants today that their child should suffer because of them and that is why we are seeing that nowdays more flexibilty is there in arraged marraiges , gone are the days when the girl use to come in veil and the father of the groom ordered that this is the girl with whom u should spend ur whole life. Parents see the best combo for their child and give him/her full choice to make decision.
In my case I am a PG student and I met a girl who is an undergraduate and really since then my life has changed coz I want to take everyone along and when I see my parents happy , I find myself to be the happiest person. Though I saw the girl just once but her parents had sent a pic of hers through e-mail. I talk to her almost twice a week and I have developed so much affection for her that I feel it's dificult to live without her. Know that many of you will say that this might be an infatuation of initial effect but for now I am sure that she is my life. So , according to me arranged marriages are not that bad as many of the youngsters feel it. I nevr got into any kinda affair coz I knew it'll create unnecessary problems for me.
Sir when i have married her i don't know what is happen with me. But after 5 year my wedding life is disturb a disease that was unrecoverable and no medicine on that so i very very shocking but i han't loose my pesions i say all reality to my wife and my parents in between i have a doghter baby. I very much love her. and my wife is on job , one day she unkoown me left home with taking all 'sri dhan' which is getting in marriege. now tell me if i know place o fher what i can do with her. so i wann avoided to her i.e my wife
Very well put together and informative. Hopefully a lot of people will stumble across this as I did. The writer has done a terrific job in both the groom's and bride's perspectives. Thanks and congratulations.
Re: Increased Divorses
by puloma chaudhuri on Dec 14, 2009 12:51 PM
Dear Pk,
I would like to introduce you to the world of Software. You are obviously completely ignorant about it, and your views are based on approx 0.1% cases that you have seen.
So please stop mis-guiding other people, as there are a lot of vulnerable people out there, who listen to biased, un-researched views like yours.
