whats wrong in lip locking as long as both the partners are ready. its their lips if r happy to do why shud others bother. as for family places like parks, then couples do such things in private places so they dont seee such ppl.
but keeping fine on couples is too much. i m totally against it ?? u cant control urself just becoz someone is watching u. at home parents dont allow, outside police threaten u with fines so where do couple go and do their romance ??
its totally fair to lock lips. i m part of it and in my city there is no such restriction.
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by surender on Apr 23, 2006 09:05 PM Permalink
hi friends!
I don't think any wrong in locking lips in the public places which is going to be common. Previously shaking hands with girls was seen as wrong, now it is not so. Frinds! we should become more free in expressing the things which are in our mind. If someone stops you in doing so with some force that will come out in different way which may be arrogant.
I think locking lips with lips may be more affactionate than shaking hands. If we stop this kind of thing in public places, people who wants to do that will waste time in searching secret places, that altogether affects social welfare and there are every chance to cross limits in secret places. So be fragmtic and don't see the things with so called traditional glasses.
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by Salil on Apr 21, 2006 01:31 PM Permalink
Why not in front of your parents???? why in public???
There could be more ways of showing your love/affection towards your partner, and yes kissing is one of them... then why not do it in private rather then doing it in public.
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by n.bhowmik on Apr 20, 2006 07:14 PM Permalink
do you live in India? if it is ,please,tell me the name of your city . some day i want to visit the city and watch the very modern people of our country .
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by Malcolm Alvares on Apr 21, 2006 01:45 PM Permalink
There is nothing wrong. I agree with you. The law makers by making such rules are only trying to fill the pockets of the law enforcing authorities.
If we are comfortable with it why bother about others. It's our life , our bodies etc., why should we be dictated about what we should do and so on.
Lip locking can be done very gracefully in public places without having a bad taste to anyone.
But, yes if it reaches beyond this, it's not good to be done in certain public places.
Today's media and communication has a far more reaching impact on our young kids at home who will teach us how to do things better.
By putting restrictions on such acts, the young generation will only be too enthusiastic to try the same in isolation and go beyond.
The law will increase corruption further and fill the deep pockets of our so called police.
RE: where to go?
by Rajesh on Apr 24, 2006 01:12 PM Permalink
you seems to understand the problems of many couples. ur right,Hindu joint-families are of conservative values, u have to lead a restrictive life inside homes. when they go out for romance in parks, crowded places, malls, they have every right to express there affection to their loved ones. couples are legally married, yaar, are we again living in british era before 1947.we are living as independent nation after 1947 yaar, give us some space.
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by hemakumar on Apr 22, 2006 04:47 PM Permalink
When somebody gets married everybody in the society knows what the couple are going to do in the bed room.Are you sure we do in the public?Everybody has the freedom to express but some are private.Donot spoil the other people's freedom of dignity with your freedom of kissing.
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by Vinny on Apr 21, 2006 02:27 PM Permalink
Yashaswi, there is absolutely nothing wrong in lip locking. The idea here is to protect morality. Who says kissing is bad, its just that people should know what is private and what should be made piblic. No normal girl would roam aroung absolutely topless in the middle of the day at a public place like park, so why would she want somebody to grab and squeeze her in public. But then of-course I am talking about normal girls.
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by chandra on Apr 21, 2006 12:43 PM Permalink
Hi All,
I totally agree with yashasvi. I dont think people needs to be monitored. If you are kissing in public you are not harming any one .... what you should do or shouldnt do in public is just a matter of indiviual's sense...it soould be left like that ..may be for kids such rules are okay they dont know what is right and what is wrong...not for adults..
I am a part of such things .. in Bagalore there i no such restriction ..and you know what ...just b'coz there no restriction dont asuume everybody kisses in public its just a matter of sense...
If such rules come to play. then tomorrow you might be told what you sould speak and shouldnt speak on your cell phones in public !! coz some people needs to be told ,,, I stress its some people not the general public...its just a matter of sense...
I love kissing in public ...but depending on the culture of the crowd around ,,,, if its a strage for them I will avoid....
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by fayesal on Apr 20, 2006 07:30 PM Permalink
well well well..... i'd really like to know what exavtly are you trying to say by...."in my city ther's no ristriction buddy"
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by Amit on Apr 21, 2006 12:51 PM Permalink
yes yash, i agree with u.. actually we being Indians are mostly belonging to hpocrite community... for every small causes the govt has to create fuss, just to show that they are active...like the recent reservation quota hype..actually even if the bul run in sensex has leap frogged 12k, yet these issues actually show that we as a nation are not progressing. I just dont understand why the people are creating so much hype about this? when both couples are ready then what is hinering the govt? to be very frank i would love to pay 500 bucks and have my lips locked, but u know what? it is not a question of 500 bucks paying to govt, this decision by the govt has opened a new way of earning for the cops, who i am sure will blackmail the young and innocent couples and demand money only to fill their pocket and in turn the wives of the cops will be happy :) does kissing in public means that we are loosing our morality?when dont the govt switch their attention from these stupid things and do some thing good.. like they can make a law to have an AIDS test mandatory before marriage, i think this is of much more importance rather than looking for prey who is kissing..its purely BOGUS!
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by mr420 on Apr 21, 2006 12:43 PM Permalink
hello i would appreciate that you have come up with such a message frankly, i would support it, but definetly do u think u can kiss anyone in public, when everyone is seeing, will u do that???? if we are bold enough to that thats fine, finally i agree that there shud not be any bans imposedd by law, as it is our own intrest
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by DSG on Apr 20, 2006 10:21 PM Permalink
I think it is totally one person's prerogative. We should just stop interefering in others' lives. People should know themselves where to draw a line. There are too many issues which 'should' demand our attention, rather than this stupid thing. Let's think about how we can deal with those things, rather than wasting our time on minor issues as this. For people who think it is spoiling our culture, teach our culture to your kids, let them know what we stand for. Simply because someone else is doing it, should not be reason enough for us to do it.
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by sachin on Apr 21, 2006 12:32 PM Permalink
hey i think u born in london just keep ur broad mentality with u i think u r just too open minded that if ur sister does it in public place i think that time also u welcome it and doesn't have any problem
R u a traditional predator?
by yoga on Apr 21, 2006 12:52 PM Permalink
Hi Dude!
Dont you know the historical fame which INDIA have. The perturbing westernisation culture ruptures indian culture?....what else and what not. DOG, which doesnt bother about the surroundings. Hope u could able type and surf hence you dont fall on that category.
RE:whats wrong !
by Sha on Apr 21, 2006 12:30 PM Permalink
Tell theese things to ur parents and argue with them, why they do not allow u to kiss in ur home
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by Nani on Apr 22, 2006 07:20 PM Permalink
Hi, You r correct. In a developed country,Every one should have their own personel life.One should not bother others what they are doing etc. Constitution should respect every individual own interests.The mind set of people should be changed.Girl/Guy...everyone should have their own life and rights to live in a way they plan to live. What is indian culture??? lock girl in the house?? bloody caste and group system??bloody reservations??first try to remove those descriminations..Indian family system was nice..But now,it is also changing..People should be changed and let others to live in their own style.. Krish
