you seems to understand the problems of many couples. ur right,Hindu joint-families are of conservative values, u have to lead a restrictive life inside homes. when they go out for romance in parks, crowded places, malls, they have every right to express there affection to their loved ones. couples are legally married, yaar, are we again living in british era before 1947.we are living as independent nation after 1947 yaar, give us some space.