Womeen want menn with money, look and a rocking career. He must have extradinary intelligence too. Honest sincere hardworking guys with a lot of respect for womeen would any day be choice for womeen instead of we all, who come here at peak time and blog away. It is ok yaar. We will find someone suitable to our types someday. Why be jealous of more intelligent meen?
As it appears that women are not upto the expectation of opposite sex in many areas. On the contrary, it is naked truth that women are stronger than men. I do believe this, it does not mean that men are not stronger.
Re: Stress
by madhu on Mar 04, 2010 04:20 PM
First of all, my sincere thanks for agreeing that women are stronger than men if not physically but mentally. Coming to your first point, I would rather say that it is you, the hippocritical men that are not ready to explore and accept what a woman has got- talent wise, fearing that we may excel you given the circumstances.
As it appears that women are not upto the expectation of opposite sex in many areas. On the contrary, it is naked truth that women are stronger than men. I do believe this, it does not mean that men are not stronger.
There are many other factors involved besides mere gender before coming to a generalization. However, figures to determine per se rates between poor/rich, would, I feel, lead to some startling conclusion, viz., the poorer one is, the less likely one is likely to commit suicide. However, beyond all dispute, education, heredity and upbringing (environment) are the vital factors, and not sex.
I guess women have a limited action plan when it comes to responding to some specific stress situation.Where as a man takes more responsibility and hence has has a wide variety of plan for a situation.Obviously choosing the most appropriate in such a short time adds up the stress.
Women actually causes Stress in men's life and hence they drive men to commit suicide...in any given society be it Indian or western men are more stressed than women...Stress of career, stress of earning, stress of responsibility of running family expenses are all on men in normal circumstances, I knw there are exceptional, but due to current social changes women have become more nagging and demanding, which is now putting a lot of extra pressure on men, things were not as bad a generation back but nowadays things have changed upside down, believe it or not but todays woman is much more powerful than men, by todays woman I mean woman who is well educated, having good career, well earning, these type of women are much more powerful than men, i m not talking abt housewives or working women in some remote village or town...and now men on the same level is much more weaker comparatively, not by strength but by the system with which current society is working...
Re: Re: Its other way round..
by Google on Mar 04, 2010 04:12 PM
Yes thts true...becoz of current social structure men need women more than women need men..hence the case, remove the social boundries and women will suffer the way they were suffering in past...My point is we have to apply the social rights according to the social structure in which women lives, a urban city, well educated, well earning women doesnt need all the social securities as a village women needs...Todays women is so power is the side effect of our social structure and it is creating imbalance again but now men r on the suffering side...I still remember the incident when a girl tried to kiss Irfaan Pathan's chick on stage in front of Media and he politely refused and tht girl was miffed in media by his refusal saying tht he shudnt have done tht...Imagin what wud happen a man for doing same thing to Sania Mirza...
Re: Its other way round..
by Manu on Mar 04, 2010 03:56 PM
I do agree with you that women are cause of stress for married men especially when there exist no understanding. Apart from this women receive sympathy from all corners of the society but men never seek for it.
