Hi Jayalakshmi I think that love is beautiful & wonderful feeling given by great GOD.And I'm fully agree with Gaurav that commitment and responsibility kill passion. This doesn't mean that no one should true to once partner but u kno sticking wid one person whole life is quiet boring and thats 2 cought in prison of responsibility. Its quiet obvious that a person eats ghar ki dal daily gets irritating and every one needs change and passion. Indian society needs to change its mindset that life exists even after marriage...i tnink everyone should be broadminded and taking to girl after marriage shouldnot be treated as crime. Without love life of humans are similar to animals that we eat food during day and sleep at night. By making love wid other person its all change of life.Wid love person feel the emotions and lif sounds like paradise.Love is not all abt sex ,its all abt caring and understanding once feeling.
It is not fair to say that only men are wrong, even women tends to be wrong on the other hand. There are certain womens who become more anxious about men to fulfill her desire, then a men tends to become more vulgar but it depends on the situation.
Re: Manipulative Relationships
by Vidhya Sreedhar on Jan 10, 2010 12:15 PM
look men and womens are two sides of a coin!!!!!!!! if the mens finds their way for the subject under discussion, means that there are womens at the other end ready for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can we women blame men.
if all the womens dis approve and reject this idea , if they dis engaged, than what men can do?
means in relation ships womens are always COVERT
while mens are always blunt and OVERT. so they become easy target us womens and fraternity. but the fact is these days , due to finance freedom, more openness, chane in society values etc, even 50% or more womens also like this kind of flings and vitues! so men has not to be blamed alone.
Re: Manipulative Relationships
by John Doe on Jan 10, 2010 06:25 AM
actually women play with men's feelings and lead him towards being more frustrated..
Re: Relationships:are you.....
by Vidhya Sreedhar on Jan 10, 2010 12:15 PM
look men and womens are two sides of a coin!!!!!!!! if the mens finds their way for the subject under discussion, means that there are womens at the other end ready for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can we women blame men.
if all the womens dis approve and reject this idea , if they dis engaged, than what men can do?
means in relation ships womens are always COVERT
while mens are always blunt and OVERT. so they become easy target us womens and fraternity. but the fact is these days , due to finance freedom, more openness, chane in society values etc, even 50% or more womens also like this kind of flings and vitues! so men has not to be blamed alone.
This is a clearly biased article. While some Men can decieve women, most are not. It is extremely unfortunate that the author is trying to paint a picture that is far from the truth. It is a fact that Women also exploit Men in several ways. It wont be fair to say most women are like that.
There is no fact that suggests more men do this kind of act than women. On the flip side, i tend to think more women exploit men in several ways in this 21st century.
Re: Biased article
by RN K on Jan 09, 2010 02:43 PM
True. Women also do this for fun. enjoy the company of men mearly as security, and to show off, and so on.. by the time he realises it he was in deep emotion.. men also do ..
nothing is more or less.. if u truly conduct survey then facts will come out the sample size must be very large
This article is one-sided. in fact more women use and exploit men that the other way around. it is true that a small number of men use women for just sex. but on the other hand most of women use most of the men for getting every thing they want (sex is not a priority for women). so exploitation and use of other persons is universal, not just in men and women relationship. bosses use and exploit employees. and rich people use and exploit the poor. u can't help it. so blaming men generally is just completely unfair. kindly do not publish this kind of articles in future that simply show frustrations of a biased and prejudiced person
Re: Women use men more
by Abhishek Maheshwari on Jan 09, 2010 03:34 PM
It's good that rediff has brought out an article, but blaming one gender over another isn't the right thing to do. Let's just say that how men use women and also vice versa. As one can understand that both type of persons exist in our world.
With more and more women entering the corporate world, the office power dynamics has gone into a very different realm. As one may point out that some women give favors to forward their career over other men and women, is that fair ?!!. Well, its debatable.
I believe that we can't put in strict moral codes for men and women here, as one has to choose his/her own path depending upon ambition and style, however we can make all aware of the world we live in.
I think it is fair to be aware of our world and our choices...
