if u can't identify who is flrting with u and who really and truely loves u than there is some serious problem......casual relationship lasts casualy......love without commitment,longavity,permanancy,based on true emotion is only lust...but girls only want to see outword appearance of a man.....not the inherent character and quality of man.....so when the superficial veil inveil,life shatters.......
What about women who use, sex as a manipulative tool, a weapon of blackmail to get their way? Isn't using sex as a tool for forcing commitment manipulation?
Women are experts at playing the victim, when they don't have their way, but claim to be liberated when manipulation suits their ends.
To quote from common wisdom " The female of any species is always more deadly than the male".
AND
"The simplest of females are capable of being much more devious than the most complex of men".
Re: As usual typical one side banter
by creativeminds on Jan 28, 2010 02:13 PM
Saikat I would have to write a few volumes if i wrote on how women manipulate, crying whining, emotionaly battering their men...so for a 1000 word article there wasnt much scope to explore further...this was abt a smal section of men who play conscious games habitually for those naive young girls who fall in their trap...
Re: As usual typical one side banter
by V SR on Jan 11, 2010 02:39 PM
Well the reality is different. In a global survey of 165000 participants in 52 countries, it was revealed that 61% of the men look for opportunity and do not mind cheating their partner. On the other hand, it is 37% of women who find a opportunity and excitement to cheat their partner. The ratio of cheating tilts more towards men than women.
This author are talking about the old adam's historic period. But the ugly truth will remain ugly truth!
what love? what care? what affection? what sacrifiece? what devi? what goddess? all are good to hear and these are just bookish words, may be suitable for the small villages. Not any more for big cities and so called cosmopolitan cultures. today every thing is physical needs and requirement. YOu give and take. Sell OR rent.
Everybody ,read spouses, wants a pie from others good and heavenly deeds, but nobody wants to share sins of their spouses! The idea is " ugly truth" is this only! believe it or not.
Re: ugly truth
by pankaj kapoor on Jan 11, 2010 05:17 PM
This is serious issue. Infact, this is a journey for search of self through relationships.There is serious repercussion when one cheats his/her partner. There is as much invisible part of us as much visible. In invisible one pays which is directly proportionate to the cheating. Upheavals in emotion and mind through relationships is part of learning process. It is part of learning process. It is up to us whether we want to move forward or otherwise.
Re: ugly truth
by Vidhya Sreedhar on Jan 10, 2010 12:42 PM
look men and womens are two sides of a coin!!!!!!!! if the mens finds their way for the subject under discussion, means that there are womens at the other end ready for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can we women blame only mens? Its Unfair!
if all the womens dis approve and reject this idea , if they dis engaged, than what men can do?
In relationships womens are always COVERT, they know what they are doing and results also.
while mens are always blunt and OVERT. so they become easy targets and fraternity. but the fact is these days , due to finance freedom, more openness, chane in society values etc, even 50% or more womens also like this kind of flings and virtues!
so men has not to be blamed alone. Today whole world sings songs of ladies, womans, female ....etc etc here and there, so we have a collective voice to supress mens and same time engaging pleasurely and pleasantly with so called these type of flings.
lets accept we ladies and womens also like this play and we do, but from now, we will do it open and bold.
Re: Only men?
by Vidhya Sreedhar on Jan 10, 2010 12:14 PM
look men and womens are two sides of a coin!!!!!!!! if the mens finds their way for the subject under discussion, means that there are womens at the other end ready for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can we women blame men.
if all the womens dis approve and reject this idea , if they dis engaged, than what men can do?
means in relation ships womens are always COVERT
while mens are always blunt and OVERT. so they become easy target us womens and fraternity. but the fact is these days , due to finance freedom, more openness, chane in society values etc, even 50% or more womens also like this kind of flings and vitues! so men has not to be blamed alone.
Re: Re: Only men?
by Vidhya Sreedhar on Jan 10, 2010 12:18 PM
i have read somewhere in a book that said " FOOLS ARE TO BE EXPLOITED or ELSE OTHERS ARE WAITING IN QUEUE".
First of all, deciding to get married and having the ability to choose a compatible partner needs maturity within a person, who has reached a certain potential in life and is able to evaluate his or her own self to keep themselves together alone & then strive to enjoy being together. That involves zeal, and a will for constant growth of each other physically, emotionally, intellectually etc. More in the reverse order to stop stagnation.
