Re: GO AFTER LOVE says DrRameshBhange Pune!!
by Inderjeetlal Kumar on Aug 23, 2009 09:29 AM
Wonderful sister, I appreciate you to write Here too the case was on her husband & other family members, I too being a women, but do not support the abuse of law which breaks families. Of wat use is such a law. I will never think of using such (498a) law in my entire life. I think govt should scrap this law, cos its causing more damage to family than any good. Love can only be fruitful if male is happy of couse his duty is to keep his spouse too happy which can only be done if female associated parents and other don,t misguide her. Girl must sui the case if she is given any type pain but not killing feeling of her husband and his parents. Now a days no one take any risk of marriage withe result sex crime is increasing. Thank you dare to support wrong things
Career is the most important and thats the one which would help one to advance up in their career in his whole life. If one is very interested in getting a job then no education beyond 12th grade is at all required. Just to start to work and by the age of 22, you can see wonders too.
In nutshell, what is the difference ? Afterall, first it is money whether one is chasing job or career. Once pockets have a weight, then comes position and careers.
If one is fresher, his goal shall be to find a suitable job with healthy pay cheq. Career path and dreams can be followed ideally but circumstances can change one's approach and push towards job first
I do not know why so much of a fuss is made over career or job. Most of us work because we need the money, have families to support. How many of us can make a living as a painter, sculptor etc etc. Very few people in this world are able to make a renumerative living from their interests alone. This is all crap. Then what enters is the lifestyle one chooses. If one wants to live it big, one has to earn big. If one is satisfied with a little life, one does not need that much. It is for a man to decide.
Re: career or job
by Visharad Software on Aug 22, 2009 11:43 PM
Yes but it is not sufficient whether a person himself is satisfied or not. It also matters what others in a family want. Suppose as per your qualification, knowledge and experience, you are capable of having a job in which you can earn huge salary. But you are interested in another job, which does not pay much. You may be happy with simple life-style. Therefore, you may be happy with the job which you love even though it does not pay much. But, if others in your family have expectations from you that you will earn lots of money so that their dreams are fulfilled, then you may be forced to take the high-paying job.
Re: Re: career or job
by kaushik chatterjee on Aug 23, 2009 10:34 AM
If anyone wishes to fulfill his or her dream, he or she is free to do so. I can understand children having expectations from their parents, spouses from one another, but the idea that one should support the complete family is stretching things too far in today's world. Another aspect is to be very clear while marrying. Make your priorities in life or how you wish to lead your life very clear. Moreover, rather than looking at it as a guy/girl thing, its more important to see it a family issue. Neither the husband or the wife are slaves of each other. Both have to work out a balance. How they work it out is their headache. However, to end, do not marry in haste and repent at leisure.
Re: Re: Re: career or job
by Visharad Software on Aug 23, 2009 10:45 AM
I am not talking about a family of only husband, wife and kids. I am talking about a family in which there are more people. For example, consider a guy who is earning. His siblings are grown up but not having any job. So he is taking care of his siblings.
In today's times, exploitation is going on in IT sector. Employers are expecting more and more and just sucking out their employees lives. Taking advantage of recession, there is considerable salary cuts at junior level with marginally at the top level in many organization. In India, exploitation is common in all other sectors and IT was only exceptional in past.. Not any more..
Pvt. sectors wants more & more within a short span of time at the behest of younger & after sucking juice of their employees, they left him like ''use & throw''.
most of the employers exploit the employees. especially under private sector, they expect workers to work continously with enormous speed. under IT BT also same thing but huge salary paid to sacrifice your health and you will become a junk at the age of 50 itself because of tension/bp
