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Unwanted pregnancies: How to cope


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exitreality
It is a fact we have to accept
by exitreality on Oct 12, 2008 12:15 PM  | Hide replies

Sex education and awareness should be given to the younger ones to tackle with the problems they are facing in their young age.
Running away from the fact is not a solution for anything. In India, speaking naked truth always attacked opposition.
Fellows just think, the social issues faced for the unwanted pregnancies.
Not all girls are willingly do unprotected sex before marriage. In many cases, it is done exploiting relationships.
The best way to curb this is providing better sex education at the right age.

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samudra blr
Re: It is a fact we have to accept
by samudra blr on Nov 01, 2008 05:13 PM
WHEN FEMALE FOETICIDE IS CONSIDERED WRONG ,EVEN ABORTION SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BAD.

WOMEN ENJOY SPREADING THEIR LEGS TO A MALE AND BECOME IRRESPONSIBLE TO DELIVER A CHILD?

FEMINISTS IN INDIA FOLLOW DOUBLE STANDARDS TO MEET THEIR OBJECTIVE.

FEMINISTS IN INDIA CONSIDER SEX DETERMINATION TESTS AS WRONG AND ABOTION IS OK.

IRRESPONSIBLE LAWS IN INDIA PREVAIL.

All types of abortion are a crime. Women should not be allowed to abort their child and in case they do it should be considered a murder.

Sex determination tests should be allowed. The parents of an un born shold know the sex of the child so that they will be mentally prepared for it.

As long as these feminists are there in the law making process, indian society is bound to be ruined.

regards,
Kumar

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Senthil palani
Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by Senthil palani on Oct 12, 2008 11:52 AM  | Hide replies

Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...

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DARPAN THAKAR
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by DARPAN THAKAR on Oct 12, 2008 11:58 AM
No condom is not 100% secure, my friend met with a road accident while he was wearing a condom. ;-)

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navdeep verma
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by navdeep verma on Oct 12, 2008 01:18 PM
was he doing sex on road???

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mayurapriyan sivaraman
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by mayurapriyan sivaraman on Oct 13, 2008 10:41 AM
His friend is a dog!

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kishore kumar
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by kishore kumar on Oct 13, 2008 11:12 AM
is it his friend or him only

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amitabh bhati
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by amitabh bhati on Oct 13, 2008 11:26 AM
Well I am curious to know --How is the dog Now ??? ;)

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goyal goyal
Re: Condom is 100% secure unless you go extra violent during sex...
by goyal goyal on Oct 13, 2008 05:56 PM
You are talking abovt CONDOM OR HELMET. Here topic is regarding un-wanted pregnancies.I think people are now more educated and even after such sexual act,to avoid pregnancy they can use I pills,freely available in market like other contraceptives.

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BishwaNath Singh
An ethical value is right solution(Page-2)
by BishwaNath Singh on Oct 12, 2008 08:28 AM  | Hide replies

. The co-education must be made compulsory in all our schools & colleges so that the boys can follow girls to build their moral values. The guardians should keep eye on their wards that they don't see any obscene pictures on the screen on their T.V.and encourage them to offer their prayers to the Almighty God daily both in the morning & evening. The children should be encouraged to watch religious discourses telecast n some of the channels in the morning &evening to build their moral character strong. Let us hope, if it is followed, the question of pill & abortion will not arise ever in any one's life that may bring financial hardship and can prove detrimental to health & fatal in long run!

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samudra blr
Re: An ethical value is right solution(Page-2)
by samudra blr on Nov 01, 2008 05:13 PM
WHEN FEMALE FOETICIDE IS CONSIDERED WRONG ,EVEN ABORTION SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BAD.

WOMEN ENJOY SPREADING THEIR LEGS TO A MALE AND BECOME IRRESPONSIBLE TO DELIVER A CHILD?

FEMINISTS IN INDIA FOLLOW DOUBLE STANDARDS TO MEET THEIR OBJECTIVE.

FEMINISTS IN INDIA CONSIDER SEX DETERMINATION TESTS AS WRONG AND ABOTION IS OK.

IRRESPONSIBLE LAWS IN INDIA PREVAIL.

All types of abortion are a crime. Women should not be allowed to abort their child and in case they do it should be considered a murder.

Sex determination tests should be allowed. The parents of an un born shold know the sex of the child so that they will be mentally prepared for it.

As long as these feminists are there in the law making process, indian society is bound to be ruined.

regards,
Kumar

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BishwaNath Singh
An ethical value is right solution(Page-1)
by BishwaNath Singh on Oct 12, 2008 08:22 AM  | Hide replies

The socially, ethically & religiously to have sex without getting wedded is prohibited and this advice holds good even today in this modern era of free-mixing society. If one follows it sincerely & honestly, there would not be any problem for rearing child borne to wedded mother any where in the world. We have been advocating since long that Ethics must be included in syllabus & courses of studies right from the primary education to university education so that youths especially boys & girls can well understand & follow ethical values for their blissful lives. The yoga must be introduced & made compulsory in our education curriculum at all level to strengthen our moral character by having sound body with sound mind. If we follow all these traits, the question of trauma will not arise and all of us can lead very happy & blissful life by keeping our heads high & raised in the society. -(Contd. to Page-2)

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saraswathi rama
Re: An ethical value is right solution(Page-1)
by saraswathi rama on Nov 01, 2008 02:16 PM
yeah right ethics has led to disowning of innocent orphans for their parents' fault...
who says what constitutes ethics? if someone wants to have responsible free sex it is unethical to stop them according to me

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samudra blr
Re: An ethical value is right solution(Page-1)
by samudra blr on Nov 01, 2008 05:14 PM
WHEN FEMALE FOETICIDE IS CONSIDERED WRONG ,EVEN ABORTION SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BAD.

WOMEN ENJOY SPREADING THEIR LEGS TO A MALE AND BECOME IRRESPONSIBLE TO DELIVER A CHILD?

FEMINISTS IN INDIA FOLLOW DOUBLE STANDARDS TO MEET THEIR OBJECTIVE.

FEMINISTS IN INDIA CONSIDER SEX DETERMINATION TESTS AS WRONG AND ABOTION IS OK.

IRRESPONSIBLE LAWS IN INDIA PREVAIL.

All types of abortion are a crime. Women should not be allowed to abort their child and in case they do it should be considered a murder.

Sex determination tests should be allowed. The parents of an un born shold know the sex of the child so that they will be mentally prepared for it.

As long as these feminists are there in the law making process, indian society is bound to be ruined.

regards,
Kumar

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BishwaNath Singh
An ethical value is right solution
by BishwaNath Singh on Oct 12, 2008 08:19 AM  | Hide replies

The socially, ethically & religiously to have sex without getting wedded is prohbited and this advice holds good even today in this modern era of free-mixing society. If one follows it sincerely & honestly, there would not be any problem for rearing child borne to wedded mother any where in the world. We have been advocating since long that Ethics must be included in syllabus & courses of studies right from the primary education to university education so that youths especially boys & girls can well understand & follow ethical values for their blissful lives. The yoga must be introduced & made compulsory in our education curriculum at all level to strengthen our moral character by having sound body with sound mind. If we follow all these traits, the question of trauma will not arise and all of us can lead very happy & blissful life by keeping our heads high & raised in the society. The co-education must be made compulsory in all our schools & colleges so that the boys can follow girls to build their moral values. The guardians should keep eye on their wards that they don't see any obscene pictures on the screen on their T.V.and encourage them to offer their prayers to the Almighty God daily both in the morning & evening. The children should be encouraged to watch religious discourses telecast n some of the channels in the morning &evening to build their moral character strong. Let us hope, if it is followed, the question of pill &abortion will not arise ever in any one's life

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niranjani shety
Re: An ethical value is right solution
by niranjani shety on Oct 12, 2008 12:17 PM
Kunti had a son before marriage, Draupadi had five husbands, Krishna desired and had affair with all the women in the world, don't you think religious teachings are little forward for the common man and woman, who has to make living by working extremely hard, especially in Mumbai, where there is no place to even kiss your lover in privacy.

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harish sowkur
Re: Re: An ethical value...
by harish sowkur on Nov 30, 2008 12:40 PM
thats your ignorance..Krishna never had married life with 16,000 ladies..They were under capture by Kamsa who had a plan for marrying them all..When Krishna killed Kamsa, these women asked Krisha to be husband only reason being they get respect of being Krishas wives, and no other cruel man will touch them because of fear of Krishna..and regarding Rukmini, Sathyabhama they are all reincarnation of Devi Laxmi..wife of Lord Vishnu..Krishna is avtaar of Vishnu..

Regarding Draupadi having 5 husbands is a curse from her husband a saint, in her previous life..

And Kunti having son Karna before marriage is a bless from Lord Sun and remember she was a virgin before marriage..How come Jesus was born if Mary was virgin? Birth of Karna and Jesus were not from physical interactions..
If u feel indulging in sex is the reason for birth, then how come first male and female born on this earth?reply me if u read this..

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Hallo There
Re: An ethical value is right solution
by Hallo There on Oct 13, 2008 06:19 PM
You are correct Niranjani, it is our tradition of freedom and culture but now wrongly interpreted as bad values and life style.

You are correct. Wemen should be allowed to have atleast 5 babies, from five different men/mates. That is freedom of choice, that is our tradition.

Kunthi Devi selected five eminent individuals as father of her 5 children herself and they were the most brave and admired ones in our whole history, the Parama Shura Vira PanchaPandavas, admired by all, by every Indian. This is the way to go forward, to give birth to great people/progeny.

This is the result of giving feeedom to wemen. Knowing thios well that men have tried, throughout history, to suppress wemen and to subjugate them by hook or crook.

Come on girls, you get pregnant and babies from any virtuous men you like, never allow any one man become father to more than one baby of yours. be a liberated one like Kunthi Devi.


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Uday
Re: An ethical value is right solution
by Uday on Oct 12, 2008 01:12 PM
Kunti did not have extra martial sex. Draupathi did not marry 5 men in turn. Krishna did not have affair with all women in the world.
Dont blame the culture for ur (ur family's) bad behaviour..
If u dont have time to kiss then, it is ur problem....

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raveendran kumar kn
Re: Re: An ethical value is right solution
by raveendran kumar kn on Oct 13, 2008 12:24 PM
how come the population has grown so much in mumbai

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saraswathi rama
Re: An ethical value is right solution
by saraswathi rama on Nov 01, 2008 02:17 PM
hey c'mon Uday what u r denying is true in our tradition stories...

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BishwaNath Singh
An ethical value is right solution.
by BishwaNath Singh on Oct 12, 2008 08:15 AM  | Hide replies

It is prohibited socially, ethically & religiously to have sex without getting wedded and this advice holds good even today in this modern era of free-mixing society. If one follows it sincerely & honestly, there would not be any problem for rearing child borne to wedded mother any where in the world. We have been advocating since long that Ethics must be included in syllabus & courses of studies right from the primary education to university education so that youths especially boys & girls can well understand & follow ethical values for their blissful lives. The yoga must be introduced & made compulsory in our education curriculum at all level to strengthen our moral character by having sound body with sound mind. If we follow all these traits, the question of trauma will not arise and all of us can lead very happy & blissful life by keeping our heads high & raised in the society. The co-education must be made compulsory in all our schools & colleges so that the boys can follow girls to build their moral values. The guardians should keep eye on their wards that they don't see any obscene pictures on the screen on their T.V.and encourage them to offer their prayers to the Almighty God daily both in the morning & evening. The children should be encouraged to watch religious discourses telecast n some of the channels in the morning &evening to build their moral character strong. Let us hope, if it is followed, the question of pill &abortion will not arise ever in any one's life

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Pravin
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by Pravin on Oct 12, 2008 11:31 AM
Stop your moral policing, it was good thousand of years ago when marriages where done even before puberty. It has no significance in the current scenario. You cant change one rule and keep the other same. It is this mentality which is the root cause of all the problem, change it for better!

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jon nams
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by jon nams on Oct 13, 2008 11:58 AM
good point pravin ....marriages took place at 10-11 years of age....today u maybe 30 by the time ur married....how long can u wait?

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jolly
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by jolly on Oct 15, 2008 03:33 PM
to hallo
If u had sex at the age of 10 or 11 i think you would have been spoilt your career and culture. so its better to stop ur all bakwas comments here.

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saraswathi rama
Re: Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by saraswathi rama on Nov 01, 2008 02:20 PM
Jolly child marriage has been part of our tradition,didn't you know?
still it goes on in many villages

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ginu george
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by ginu george on Nov 02, 2008 06:35 PM
Feminazis are holding the entire legal system for ransom these days and the men will have to resort to strict harsh measures I am afraid. The Dr.Sunil mentioned above should be shot for supporting the feminazi view of anti-family honour and anti-chastity. the above view is feminazi conditioned propaganda

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ASA C
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by ASA C on Oct 12, 2008 01:57 PM
More than anything, why sex before marriage is not encouraged is not to have STDs and AIDS/HIV. Also one mother producing children from different fathers means different gene and different behaviour is not good. Hence control on sex with anyone is really good.

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ASA C
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by ASA C on Oct 12, 2008 02:00 PM
Please read - really not good.

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saraswathi rama
Re: An ethical value is right solution.
by saraswathi rama on Nov 01, 2008 02:19 PM
are u an expert on genetics and psychology ASAC?

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Sanj
Be a gay?
by Sanj on Oct 12, 2008 07:51 AM  | Hide replies

I guess being a gay is the best. Society will not suspect anything, we can have multiple partners and there is no worry of pregnancy. I know many guys who do it with guys when their wives are away or when their wives are pregnant

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Uday
Re: Be a gay?
by Uday on Oct 12, 2008 01:13 PM
Where is ur wife now ? With Ramdoss.

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jeff
RE:
by jeff on Oct 12, 2008 03:09 AM  | Hide replies

After some years there will be clone made body to satisfy u.It will be call sex doll.U no need to shake or go for sex.Just use the doll and have fun.If u have any ideas plz post.

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sumit choudhary
Re: RE:
by sumit choudhary on Oct 12, 2008 07:18 AM
You are so freakin sick...If you dont understand the seriousness of the topic, please do not post junk out here

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Ikisswonderland
Say NO to unwanted babies
by Ikisswonderland on Oct 12, 2008 02:49 AM

Pl. spare the baby the trouble of unwanted. Pressure on all people involved. May be they should make a law, if possible.

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