my in-laws r very dominating. i tried living with them peacefully, but "peace" meant "sacrifice'.... SACRIFICING my independence, way of living, what i am eating, what i am wearing.... evrything controlled by MIL. at last we moved out and now r living seperately for past 3 years. we visit them often and vice-versa. but these days they r pressurising us to move back.... since they got to know that i m pregnant with a second kid, they r using it as a tool to get us back... they r scaring us by saying that i need somebody during pregnancy.... and wont be able to handle everything on my own.... i am really scared, god forbid if something goes wrong, i will be blamed for it!!! what to do... really scared
I have tried a no. of times to improve this relation but every effort from side proves futile.it was only when i asked my hubby to tell them that i'm going to my home,my FIL immediately replied there wasn't any need of telling us.
I have tried a no. of times to improve this relation but every effort from side proves futile.it was only when i asked my hubby to tell them that i'm going to my home,my FIL immediately replied there wasn't any need of telling us.
I have tried a no. of times to improve this relation but every effort from side proves futile.it was only when i asked my hubby to tell them that i'm going to my home,my FIL immediately replied there wasn't any need of telling us.
I tried to make a good bond with my In laws ... but they r not interested in such a relationship...my MIL doesn't want anyone to be praised except herself and her daughter. She lies about my personality and habits and portrays herself like an angel in front of my husband ...what do u say?
ours was alove marraige wherein i wated for 4 yrs for my husbands parents to approve of me when finally they had no go they agreed for the marraige . they decided that they wud make life difficult my inlaws included my sister in law who used to put worng thigns into the mind fo my MILand FIL the i am ill treatign her . i am a very independent person and i was shocked to see how mysisterinlaw required her brother to even take her to a shop to buy her necissities .situation became mroe worse and i held on for two yrs myson was born and i had to leave my jobto take of entire house they refused to keeop servants and expected me to do wash garage and clean the three bedroom apartment moreover food was not given even thoguh i used to cook for everybody i used to get the last few morsels . fianlly one day i got out of the house we stay separate . nwo they are balck mailign my husband to brign my son and leave with them which i do nto agree they are using emotional black mail that they are old and they will die any momnet ( they are very healthy and have social life ) my husband si mum and always we land up in an argument over mychidl being taken ther am i right pls advise
