Sufferung a break up since 6 odd months. I am an MBA student in 2nd year , this curse has collided right at the time of my placements and I am not getting placed either, mind you I m in a top 10 B school (watever). The fact is I am suffering a death everyday, she has dumped me citing family reasons , so why not she realised it before loving me. I m criticising her,I love her so much but putting a point here. She does not pick my calls and does not talk to me properly. I am broken a big time, I wana live for my parents and probably would never trust a girl, had given my heart and soul , I loved her mor ethen anything in my life ... but today , she is not interested in me.. everyday , i miss her , everyday i miss her :( ....
Re: am losing everything ...
by Truth again on Feb 11, 2009 08:58 PM Permalink
Come on man, you deserve better than that girl. She is a looser not you. She will realize it in future. Just pick yourself forget everything and get on your life for your parents.
Might be she was doing TP with you and she will realize her mistake when some one will do a TP with her.
There are plenty of girls there who are sincear and are honest. My best advice, you dump your feeling for that looser, go on with your life, get a nice job and marry a girl with whom you and your parents are comfertable with.
Remember your parents must gone a lot of suffering in getting you to a point where you are, so now its your turn. DOnt make them suffer becuase of that looser girl but make them proud with your achievements.
Re: am losing everything ...
by Brown Girl on Feb 11, 2009 08:59 PM Permalink
Hey..thts sad...i wud give up 10 affairs to get a career like yours....chill out dude...enjoy life....there's just one life... enjoy it-or don't, is all in your hands....try going out with frds more often....believe me, she's going to be out of your mind in few years max, in a way that u'll wonder why did you ever love her in the first place......all i'll say is-just chill, and have as much fun as you can, while you can, till you can...and study hard-its a tough competitive world..where no one understands why you underperformed..a failure is a failure- even if it is out of remorse of losing someone.....come out in bright colors...u'll have all the girls in the world-offering love to you in bright, shining plates- enjoii
Re: am losing everything ...
by Crazy Guy on Feb 12, 2009 02:47 AM Permalink
I hear people suffering less than 2 years writing these stories etc. and no one above 4 or 5years of love failure expressing his anguish over here I guess i am the one who is experienced in here i guess .. lol just kidding. 4 years ago I was in the same situation , My Girl said "no" despite trying out SRK way of following her May be I was obsessive about her , I was down for 2 Full years remembering her daily and many times end up crying all alone in night and when some emotional scene plays in movie etc., Now I am going on with new freinds and new stuff, like I play online Games alot and work more than required kept myself busy , That has made me think about my GF less, the frequency became less, now I remember her only like once in a week and remaining time I am happy. I Needed to do this cos my Parents love me and I cant dissapoint them so I had to manage to search for an altenative and make myself happy , so that my parents looking at me are happy!!!
so you need to keep yourself busy in things you like. thats the message I can give as I personally experienced it.
People who are reading this out curiosity I warn you If you go behind a girl pursue her ... but dont give a damn if she rejects you.. look out for new girl or new interest trust me it works out pretty well, But takes time though to forget her and past, and you need to put in that little effort to forget her.
Cheers guys Today Never comes again so have a blast.
Re: am losing everything ...
by Pavneet Bajaj on Feb 12, 2009 09:35 AM Permalink
Dude... I have been through a somewhat similar situation. My advice to you - its time to move on... By doing this to your self, you are just destroying yourself.. she just wont be bothered about whats happening to you. There is a life ahead... Just remember one thing - "EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR GOOD"... Cheers!!
Re: am losing everything ...
by siddhashant talgaonkar on Feb 14, 2009 07:17 AM | Hide message
hi dude i guess i should share something with you all i nearly lost my life with the same situation u r in u know what condition i am in docs say i need spine surgery my whle career could have been finished i work for tata and losing my job was inevitable dont know how i survived but look dude u need to just concentrate on your life seldom we meet and lose people in our life last 3 years i have lived like dev-d but now i am surviving still i want to help all of you people there with such situation i know its worse but REMEMBER TOUGH TIMES DONT LAST TOUGH PEOPLE DO PLZ CONTACT ME ON sidmclaren@yahoo.co.in maybe i can help
Re: am losing everything ...
by Vikrant Kanwal on Feb 14, 2009 10:45 AM Permalink
hey don't lose everything dude, if you lose gold because u deserve diamond in life, i know its too painful, but life has to go on, so chill yaar! u'll get a more gud looking and supporting girl to you. best of luck for your life and career!
Re: am losing everything ...
by Neo on Feb 16, 2009 04:42 PM Permalink
you are wasting your time... girls do this all the time man... 2 years down the road, you will curse yourself for the dumb things you are doing right now... been there, done it... so am telling you with exp...
