I hear people suffering less than 2 years writing these stories etc. and no one above 4 or 5years of love failure expressing his anguish over here I guess i am the one who is experienced in here i guess .. lol just kidding. 4 years ago I was in the same situation , My Girl said "no" despite trying out SRK way of following her May be I was obsessive about her , I was down for 2 Full years remembering her daily and many times end up crying all alone in night and when some emotional scene plays in movie etc., Now I am going on with new freinds and new stuff, like I play online Games alot and work more than required kept myself busy , That has made me think about my GF less, the frequency became less, now I remember her only like once in a week and remaining time I am happy. I Needed to do this cos my Parents love me and I cant dissapoint them so I had to manage to search for an altenative and make myself happy , so that my parents looking at me are happy!!!
so you need to keep yourself busy in things you like. thats the message I can give as I personally experienced it.
People who are reading this out curiosity I warn you If you go behind a girl pursue her ... but dont give a damn if she rejects you.. look out for new girl or new interest trust me it works out pretty well, But takes time though to forget her and past, and you need to put in that little effort to forget her.
Cheers guys Today Never comes again so have a blast.