It is definitly not the freedom of speech because it disturbs others whether they are right or wrong.If it is the freedom of speech then speaking about terrorism and against the court jugement and critising the prime minister in any other aspect would be a freedom of speech
Having premarital sex is different and consequences later is different.Persons in higher socio economic group could meet the two ends easily even if it go otherway around.
Keeping our culture and tradition is not wrong since it has not done any harm and it would be only identity in the growing globalisation.Donot confuse premarital sex with the female freedom. If somebody accepts the premarital sex then why not post marital atleast for the argument sake.If you are in rome behave like a roman otherwise it would be disaster.The family values in developed countries are not seen widely and they are helped financialy by the government in many ways.That is not possible and it is never going to happen in ours.So,behave sensibily.
RE:actress khushboo controversy
by buffy on Nov 29, 2005 01:16 PM
No one needs any licence to have premarital sex and parents/blood relations indulge in these things themselves. Teach the male children to respect women first. These sons grow up int antisocial elements, who cheat and rape/molest women. Guys will say that premarital sex for girls is good, they get to enjoy it. Who knows what Tamil girls would say, they must be following their mens footsteps too. Most probably, there are no virgins in TN... The men who demand virginity of women are themselves not virgins. Virginity applies only to women? It is because of men that women are becoming non-virgins. Most men go around preying on gullible and naïve women, because many men rape and molest women and go unpunished. You are trying to stop consensual sex, but are not concerned about women who get cheated in love by men. You are not worried about marital rape and all sorts of atrocities men commit against women. It is because of the men that women can not be safe anywhere in India. Parents should teach their male offspring to respect and honor women instead of teaching them to abuse and destroy women. These men who are born from a female turn around and bite the hand that feeds them.
Merits 1)she has boldly expressed her views 2)no mincing of words 3)People,especially women,need this courage. Demerits 1)Delivered the comments to slightly immatured community,easily vulnerable to exploitation. 2)Hastily begged pardon for what she said.Instead,she should stick on to what she said.
1) Khushboo's was an absolutely personal observation. She has not crossed her 'freedom of expression'rendered by the constitution of India. 2) Trying to block freedom of expression by another individual or group of individuals is unconstitutional and hence should be dealt with firmly. 3) In this case common people would have been wrongly led to believe certain things and they should be made to understand things.Even Khushboo can take an initiative.
What makes a man educated and what makes him so superior in this 21 century. If he advocates free sex and pre-martial sex for all does he become the most perfect human being !!!
What makes human beings different from animals? What do you think you men & women if you go out and have pre-martial sex, there are lot of social problems and diseases that arewaiting for you and once these people get married what is there in a marriage that can stop him or her to go out and have sex with others even after marriage . Think your mother, father, brother and sisters having sex outside marriage what will be the consequences, will be able to recognise our parents. Will we get more superior or the most inferior creatures on earth worst than the animals who doesnot care they have sex with their offsprings or parents!!! What makes us differents from animals is that its we have brains to think and act and select from the right and wrong. You men and women think is it right to have what you are arguing for?
RE:Pre Martial Sex
by buffy on Nov 25, 2005 02:35 PM
You are trying to stop consensual sex, but are not concerned about women who get cheated in love by men, you are not worried about marital rape and all sorts of atrocities men commit against women. It is because of the men that women can not be safe anywhere in India. Parents should teach their male offspring to respect and honor women instead of teaching them to abuse and destroy women. These men who are born from a females womb turn around and bite the hand that feeds them.
Taimilians are very sencitive on fedility issue.We strictly follow one man forone woman policy in india an d our govt. also have a law for it.
By saying like this "do Kuushboo wants to advice all young girlss to take sex pleasure before marriage?For outsiders and animals living outside india ,this may be a SIMPLE issue. But this is not a simple issue for us .Already society is spoiled by cinima and Tv.Let further damage not anticipated by us with very very bad remark like this.
RE:Objection to kushboo's remark on premaritalsex
by buffy on Nov 23, 2005 02:46 PM
Mr. selvam: Indian govt. also has laws against dowry, bride burning, child marriages, sati, corruption, etc. Do you believe that all Indians are law abiding citizens? In that case, we would be the most civilized country in this multi-universe. You think that Taimilians are very sensitive on fidelity issues. In reality, there is no "one man for one woman" policy being followed by most Tamilians or Indians.
Let us assume that Khushboo has advised all young girls to "take sex pleasure before marriage". Your only concern seems to be that "young girls" are enjoying it. You also seem to think that there are no animals in India (including men). If society is already spoiled by cinema/TV, why are people not protesting against these things? As a visual media, these are worse examples for young girls. Many Tamilian/Indian men watch hindi/foreign movies solely for self-stimulation. India is filled with deranged & psychopathic men who abuse women, children & animals. What further damage are you talking about? WAKE UP MAN.
Used Mr. because usually Indian men pass judgments on what is right & wrong for women, hiding behind culture & values. If you are a woman, there is no hope.