This is not the first time that an Indian is having a problem with the Child services in Norway.. The economic condition in Europe is not so good and if Indians are ready to work for more hours at less wages then it may only worsen the situation.. So, who is to say that this is not one of the ways to deter immigration of the Indians???
Every country should conduct Moral and culture test for people coming to their country.
Desi people talk loud in their desi language when they are in public. Keep chit chatting in buses and disturb others. Don't have dress sense. Don't give way for people on side walk. Many more
Re: Every country should conduct Moral and cultural test for peop
by Connan on Dec 03, 2012 08:39 PM
Go to colaba in Bombay and see which foreigner speaks in Hindi or a Indian language. I did not know you could not chit chat in a bus, it is not a library. Just check if a foreigner wears a dhoti in india. I have seen whites actually pushing indian's away intentionally, giving way to gora saheb is old mentality you are equal to them as a human, and in most cases intellectually better. It is your kind of people with white complex due to which India was conquered by outsiders.
Apparently, the child was bringing home toys from his school... The parents tried to discipline him by scolding him... what should they have done?? Call the police and report that their child is stealing from his school???? or Just curse their fortunes that their child is on a wrong path???? Shouldn't the child know that stealing is wrong and if he continues to do it, he may get into trouble???
It is the discipline imbibed by parents alone that has kept down the rate of juvenile crimes in countries like India,China and Japan compared to the rest of the world.
Also uptill now there have been so few juvenile crimes committed by the children of NRI's throughout the world that they can be counted on fingers..
Re: So what should a parent do when his child is stealing???
by Ajit Birdi on Dec 02, 2012 01:16 AM
Your thinking is on wrong steps as far as the toys are concerned. MOroansAtRediff will not let me post the explanation on how and Why children take toys home from school. 10 minutes of writing and it is blocked, no abuse or bad language, just plain explaintion
Re: Re: So what should a parent do when his child is stealing???
by Ajit Birdi on Dec 02, 2012 01:19 AM
Apparently, it is perfectly legal for a the child to bring home toys from his school, and school encourage it. Provided certain rules are followed by the parents of the child. It is not a child's fault.
Re: Re: Re: So what should a parent do when his child is stealing
by asliSwadeshi on Dec 02, 2012 01:26 AM
the articles on this website, this one and the earlier ones, only portray that the child was bringing home toys from his school and that is why his parents were "disciplining" him... I only reached to my current conclusion from these articles and am in no way stating that it was the child's fault....
Re: Indians ...
by Sameek Ghosh on Dec 02, 2012 10:51 AM
Yes they are personal property and parents are responsible for both good and bad. Thats why still we take care of our parents who had taken care of us ... not like the west
children in india are mostly treated badly by parents. this is true for poor and lower middle class. we need to think of that. on the same topic we need to discuss how we treat our parents.
Majority of the NRI know how strict is the law in the Middle East. The law in Saudi is such that a man cannot talk and go out with a woman who is not related to him, not even business meetings. Many of NRIs know the Middle easter laws because we are perhaps second generated. But NRIs are not aware of Norway or Ireland or other western countries because they are first generation. It is important to know that while the NRIs enjoy the smooth road, the landscape and other environment friendly cultures over there compared to India, remember that those country have more complicated laws than India.
It is important that we understand a basic tenet of Western societies - civil laws are for everyone and you are responsible for abiding by the law. Cultural sensitivity is important and if India wants to continue to reap the benefit of its workforce remitting billions back to its coffer then we must make sure that both our education system and the industry practices are upgraded to make our younger generation more culturally aware of the world around them. Having lived outside India for several years and observing the parochial cultural in-sensitivities of Indians, I can totally see how this unfortunate event unfolded. There is nothing to be gained by blaming the Norwegians - they take child care seriously. Its tome for some introspection.
Re: When in Rome be Roman
by Sane Blogger on Dec 01, 2012 08:58 PM
Well said and agree totally. At least a social preparation course is a must when professionals are deputed abroad.
But we wont have right to change some countries law..This is law of common sense..And if we dare..Try taking processions and all ..who are going to be the looser you need to understand .Yesterday it was ireland ,today norway then sweden..If you cant respect others country law stay in india pls..Now people in india dont think they will change their law specially for you..They are not..They can actually ban indians that can quite happen if we take processions ..so be sensible and calm..and also try to reduce population..bye I think that guy will even have to leave his job..if we start making too much unecessary noise..Best of luck every one.
