People like bipasha etc lead a life were they sell every second of their life for money.Not marrying is a calculated step to harvest gossips and get fat paychecks from publishing houses.Its not love but frivlous attitude of living a scandalous life for money.
Whts marriage nd certificate got in common? O yeah, the contract thing which only caters to selfish desires of individuals in which giving is conditioned on the spouse's behavior. Sadly who evr came up w.this contract nd also combined thm w.marriage, is wht pepul these days believe nd eventually ar tired of it. Hence, live in relationships ar born, its the same thing as marriage w.o the contract/paper.
Thse days pepul don't evn understand the word marriage. Thy ar following dumb Confucius nd his def. of marriage tht is union of 2 diff. "surnames"(Ths is jst one part of his statemnt) and hence "a certificate" only defines marriage.
The most simple def. of marriage is loving relationship/companinship, which obviously applies to "live in relationship" too. Also, marriage is simply being unified, now humans in general don't practice unity,compaionship w.any1 or love b.tween family,friends,co-workers,neighbors etc..Rather humans jst can't get along. Its useless of havin his/her relationship defined as unified,love, nd life long companionship(marriage). Whn its rare these days in human beings themselves to not practice unity,love,companionship in general. Whtr live in, marriage or whtvr name u wnt to give ur relationship thrs no genuine love,unity/life long companionship.
If u don't "practice" those qualities not jst mouth them in greeting cards or a song, thn pepu
Re: marriage
by Devin Aaron on Apr 12, 2010 10:16 PM
cont... Pepul ar cynical abt relationships in general, nd fall fr the line "marriage is only a piece of paper" which denies unity,love, and companionship. Well atleast the unity nd companionship part. Othr thing is thy turn to live in relationship is not going to make any differnce at all. So now u have to find the guy,sleep w.him nd discover whthr ur compatible or not nd thn end up marrying???? Or jst live life believing tht jst being together doesn't mean u've hav to get married. Hello both ar the same thing, 2 pepul ar together. Evn whn pepul in live in relationship or in marriages can't get along, thrs divorce in one nd the separating/breaking up in the other. Its jst 2 diff.words spelled differently, otherwise its the same thing as not being together. While one is divorcee, the other is single. Jst change of individual status, bt the same live in and marriage is same. Don't know why pepul get all workd up nd jst call marriage a piece of paper. I jst don't gt tht, live in relationship ar also jst dorming togthr.
here, ind dare to stay together without marriage. they dare to ditch their spouse even after marriage. but even in usa, say for tiger woods, his wife vl file suit of divorce against his hubby. even warne's wife vl not tolerate his hubby's heroism. so even the so-called modern countries respect fidelity but indians hv crossed every limit.
if the ppl try to 'behave' as married inspite of not being married, then they vl not 'FEEL' the 'NEED' to marry. all their needs r fulfilled despite the non-marriage.
Re: goOD goOD
by Rajesh Bangad on Apr 10, 2010 07:31 PM
you are cent per cent right otherwise how can they get roles in movies and earn crore of ruppes???
