We always can exercise our divine right of not ogling at these fabulously attractive women's bosoms. We can refuse to attend Rakhee Sawant's lewd dances and read juicy gossip about her love life in glossy filmy magzines.
We can also refuse to peep into Shriya's cleavage and make our selves sexually excited about it.
We can consciously choose to stop feeling a sense of deprivation for not having had an opportunity to have enjoyed the attention and company of these gorgeous women.
WE can be honest with ourselves and admit to ourself in the mirror that it isn't their cleavage and tight pants and sexy legs that really offend us. It isn't our religious sentiments that are hurt.
We should admit to ourselves that it is simply envy that we suffer from not Shriya's cleavage.
After having recorded a complaint I can assure you all these fanatics are already fantasizing about Shriya!
Be truthful to yourself. That is the first step towards your spirituality.
RE:Stop cheating yourselves.
by Your Nemesis on Jan 15, 2008 01:47 AM
Sanjay, nice that a few sensible people come forward to blog their views, out-numbered against a portal full of morons. But, in matters of righteousness, the moral should just keep doing their job, without getting daunted by the number they face or the wretchedness of the ignorants they meet. We'll never be sorry, for we derive strength from the very morality that we stand for. The conveniently conservative demons get emaciated by their own hypocracy.
RE:Stop cheating yourselves.
by combo on Jan 15, 2008 01:07 AM
Whom is cheating here ??? Buy following what you said... U are cheating Urself :D... Its humans'(man) nature to go for all the above U said. If U truly follow all the above and not cheating Urself... I can say U are un-natural. :D
RE:Stop cheating yourselves.
by imran patel on Jan 15, 2008 01:41 AM
It is about individual freedom and individual responsibility.
This actress has a right to wear whatever she wants. That is her individual freedom and no one can deprive her of that. Some of us may not agree with that. There are ways to protest our opinion. Stop watching her films, write to her, stop supporting the products that she promotes, etc.
But to force her or to threaten her is harrassment and a crime.
Some are suggesting a "Dress Code". This is the level of insanity on this forum. Every adult has a right to wear whatever he/she pleases. I am a Muslim. My wife chooses to wear a headscarf. These are matters of personal freedom. We should not legislate these issues of force people.
Same applies to opinions of writers or artwork of painters.
I am a Muslim. I do not agree with what Taslima write, but I respect her right to express her opinion. Same thing with MF Hussein. I believe his painting of the goddess was in bad taste. But I respect his right to do that. Same think with the cartoons of the Prophet (PBUH). I was offended. But that does not mean that the Danish should be deprived of his right.
We have become so intolerant. Its my way of the highway. No wonder we have so many fights and arguments in our communities over trivial matters.
Lets realize something. We do not have to agree with an individual or his work in order to respect HIS/HER right to free speech.
We women of India must wear decent clothing that is not provocative in nature. We are civilized women and must not be distracted from our pursuits of women rights by exposing ourselves and giving men a excuse to bring us back to home keeping. Let's be sensitive to the requirements of th society.
RE:We Indian Women
by Sanjay Jamdade on Jan 15, 2008 01:15 AM
Lady you are mixing two different issues. Are you a lowly politician? One hand you talk of womens emancipation on the other hand you talk of women weakening their rights by exposing them selves.
Well O.k.When I deal with women I find all of them equally sexy! I find a Burqa clad women with just the tips of her fingers exposed very sexy (especially if she fits the hour glass shape ).I find Rajasthani Women with long pallus hiding their faces sexy.
Every molecule of a woman is sexy what all shall you hide? No I am not being lewd it's my involuntary biological response. Even a Burqa nor a Pallu can hide her beauty!
God made Women beautiful you can hide her beauty only if she stands behind the man, there is total darkness in the room, she is behind an opaque wall. She is a few kilometeres away in a different town!
No matter what, a woman is beautiful and attractive. Period. No argument can stand that under honest scrutiny.
So let the women breathe freely with what she wishes to do. Womens emancipation has nothing to do with Ghunghat, Burqa, Jeans and Cleavage. Just leave the Modern women alone. Don't be under the illusion that the Burqa Ghunghat wearing woman is holier and nearer to GOD and the jeans clad Teenager is going to hell for her sins.
RE:We Indian Women
by Dakshin on Jan 15, 2008 01:21 AM
Well, there are restrictions which people must follow in a society. Women can wear the clothes of their choice as long as it doesn't make them feel insecure in a society. It takes time for India to mature into a tolerant society where any outfit can be tolerated. It's better to go according to the times. And please don't think body is everything. It's the soul which is more beautiful so clearly enunciated in the Gita. Atman is more precious and beautiful than Sharir. What you see is not always what you get.
RE:RE:We Indian Women
by Dakshin on Jan 15, 2008 01:03 AM
I am a good looking woman as much as Shriya. The difference being, i don't expose like her. I respect Indian culture.
RE:We Indian Women
by Creative Online on Jan 15, 2008 01:06 AM
Ah ha! Why dont u post your pic here, so that all of us can decide who is prettier, you or Shriya?
RE:We Indian Women
by Dakshin on Jan 15, 2008 01:08 AM
Somethings better not be proven in online media where things get nasty. I stand as a woman as much as any woman posting here. I am not used to giving pics to strangers like you. I hope you understand.
RE:We Indian Women
by NIKHIL VIJAYAN on Jan 15, 2008 02:00 AM
Iresspective of whether you are a man or a woman. Dakshin what Indian culture are you claiming to abide by? We Indians had entire texts written descriptively on sex and art of love-making even before the white man had a script or language of his own. These texts describe in the fullest detail numerous postures of love-making in fore-play, play and post-play stages. If we truly care of Indian culture we should shed parochialism, make our bedroom lives better(will reduce cardio and diabetic diseases), sex educate youngsters(rather than let them think that is something chi chi), use protection for birth control and disease control. The last thing we wan't is a false garb of morality and caste-driven religosity based on an assumed identity. We are the proud authors of Kamasutra and are entitled to enjoy all its manifestations let it be Shriya's cleavage or whosesoever's.
RE:We Indian Women
by imran patel on Jan 15, 2008 01:42 AM
It is about individual freedom and individual responsibility.
This actress has a right to wear whatever she wants. That is her individual freedom and no one can deprive her of that. Some of us may not agree with that. There are ways to protest our opinion. Stop watching her films, write to her, stop supporting the products that she promotes, etc.
But to force her or to threaten her is harrassment and a crime.
Some are suggesting a "Dress Code". This is the level of insanity on this forum. Every adult has a right to wear whatever he/she pleases. I am a Muslim. My wife chooses to wear a headscarf. These are matters of personal freedom. We should not legislate these issues of force people.
Same applies to opinions of writers or artwork of painters.
I am a Muslim. I do not agree with what Taslima write, but I respect her right to express her opinion. Same thing with MF Hussein. I believe his painting of the goddess was in bad taste. But I respect his right to do that. Same think with the cartoons of the Prophet (PBUH). I was offended. But that does not mean that the Danish should be deprived of his right.
We have become so intolerant. Its my way of the highway. No wonder we have so many fights and arguments in our communities over trivial matters.
Lets realize something. We do not have to agree with an individual or his work in order to respect HIS/HER right to free speech.
RE:We Indian Women
by andrewsmith on Jan 15, 2008 01:41 AM
Dakshin, Man a women is more beautiful in dressess like above.At least you can have an excercie on your own after reaching home hi hi
RE:RE:We Indian Women
by imran patel on Jan 15, 2008 01:43 AM
Andrew that is your opinion. And it may wary from person to person.
It is about individual freedom and individual responsibility.
This actress has a right to wear whatever she wants. That is her individual freedom and no one can deprive her of that. Some of us may not agree with that. There are ways to protest our opinion. Stop watching her films, write to her, stop supporting the products that she promotes, etc.
But to force her or to threaten her is harrassment and a crime.
Some are suggesting a "Dress Code". This is the level of insanity on this forum. Every adult has a right to wear whatever he/she pleases. I am a Muslim. My wife chooses to wear a headscarf. These are matters of personal freedom. We should not legislate these issues of force people.
Same applies to opinions of writers or artwork of painters.
I am a Muslim. I do not agree with what Taslima write, but I respect her right to express her opinion. Same thing with MF Hussein. I believe his painting of the goddess was in bad taste. But I respect his right to do that. Same think with the cartoons of the Prophet (PBUH). I was offended. But that does not mean that the Danish should be deprived of his right.
We have become so intolerant. Its my way of the highway. No wonder we have so many fights and arguments in our communities over trivial matters.
Lets realize something. We do not have to agree with an individual or his work in order to respect HIS/HER right to free speech.
RE:RE:We Indian Women
by NIKHIL VIJAYAN on Jan 15, 2008 02:02 AM
Irrespective of whether you are a man or a woman. Dakshin what Indian culture are you claiming to abide by? We Indians had entire texts written descriptively on sex and art of love-making even before the white man had a script or language of his own. These texts describe in the fullest detail numerous postures of love-making in fore-play, play and post-play stages. If we truly care of Indian culture we should shed parochialism, make our bedroom lives better(will reduce cardio and diabetic diseases), sex educate youngsters(rather than let them think that is something chi chi), use protection for birth control and disease control. The last thing we wan't is a false garb of morality and caste-driven religosity based on an assumed identity. We are the proud authors of Kamasutra and are entitled to enjoy all its manifestations let it be Shriya's cleavage or whosesoever's.
In India,it is women bashing that is in fashion.Muslim fundamentalists are after Sania Mirza,Salman Rushdie and many more defenceless women.They are courageous people.And the Hindu fundamentalists are after Khushboo for her view on pre-marital sex and Shriya for agenda best known to them.They are also courageous people.Courageous both,because the women cannot hit back or retaliate.The Central and state Govts have become selective in going after these divisive forces lest they lose vote banks.What a sad state of affairs.On one hand the PM talks about 21st century,India on the move,and on the other hand,he is taking the country back to stone age.Is there someone there at the Centre,who feels a little bit for the poor and the defenceless.No.Mrs.Gandhi is enconsed in her cozy palatial bungalow and is only interested in promoting her son to the PM's chair and remain in power.Other women ,sorry, ladies in the congress are busy conducting padpooja of Mrs.Gandhi.The poor have to look towards the sky for their saviour. But,then God is at the moment in deep slumber.
RE:Go after soft targets-women.Politicians have no other agenda
by Sanjay Jamdade on Jan 15, 2008 01:18 AM
even women won't support women. Women are jealous of each other and men are jealous of the man who is going to enjoy her!
RE:Go after soft targets-women.Politicians have no other agenda
by gerard amalraj on Jan 15, 2008 01:49 AM
Hi Subhash, I know this is a little off the topic. Whatever you said, all taken but one that, 'God is at the moment in deep slumber'. I'm not sure whether or not you really meant it or what ideas you have about God but the fact is that, "God neither sleeps nor slumbers". You may check the BIBLE for its reference. God is definitely aware of all things good and bad but is only waiting for the right moment to bring everyone to account for his/her deeds. Even if you really didn't mean what you said, you musn't even engage in loose talks about 'GOD, the ever watchful and observant' else you might have to pay for consequences by spurning HIS fearsome wrath. Take this like a gentleman as food for thought and no intended criticism.
We watch movie for entertainment.... and its part of it..... in history also you will find some cases where women danced in front of Raja n Maharaja... we are modern Maharaja... just pay for ticket and enjoy..
