Divya,you seem to have got married into a very traditional family.That is the real problem.If your husband and inlaws believe in modern and positive thinking,you will not have the problem.You can still change them by your positive attitude and influencing their thinking in line with your thinking.Do not become subjugated.Then ,then they will consider you as a slave.Be confident,be yourself and above all take care of your loved ones well so that you can get love in return!
Re: Marriage
by divya nair on Feb 02, 2015 04:49 PM
Hi Urvashi My in laws are traditional, but they're not orthodox or conservative at all. Post our wedding, the cousins have bonded well and the families have come together. So, most of the social obligations are purely out of love...but sometimes, it becomes difficult to attend all social events and keep everyone happy. With time, I hope I can handle these tiny issues better. Thank you very much for your kind wishes dear....:) Lots of love!
Re: Marriage
by Naveen Babu on Feb 03, 2015 03:36 PM | Hide message
Urvashi Seth, Divya Nair has no where stated that her in-laws being traditional and are a source of problem. Hope my statement will not hurt you.
Aptly said,I am quoting you here: the true test of marriage lies in nurturing the desire to live with the same person and rekindle your love for each other despite the limitations.
Aptly said,I am quoting you here: the true test of marriage lies in nurturing the desire to live with the same person and rekindle your love for each other despite the limitations.
hi.hru divya,i was reading your all the blogs at the time of your marriage, that time after reading your blogs and i was scared & nervous cz my D day was 14'feb 14 hahah.. very next month of yours, but after almost one year, TODAY i realize that im happier than before and she is also happy with me. Marriage is like a Newton’s third law. “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction” its like give n take give him love and he’ll love you too, just a matter of fact it’s a small lesson everyone should learn
Re: Marriage!!!!it's like a Newton’s third law.
by divya nair on Jan 30, 2015 12:03 PM
hi...I'm good...also, I'm happy to hear you got married...congratulations to the both of you...wish you a very happy and healthy life together..:)
