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How I told my family I was gay: A coming out story


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RAMACHANDRA SAHOO
homosexuality
by RAMACHANDRA SAHOO on Mar 31, 2011 05:59 PM  | Hide replies

just think about your parents and think how/when u ll be a parent

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abdul narayan
Re: homosexuality
by abdul narayan on Mar 31, 2011 08:51 PM
no parent can control what genes will become dominant and what gene becomes recessive in their children.

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pradeep menon
Re: Re: homosexuality
by pradeep menon on Apr 01, 2011 01:42 PM
And also people making negative comments should realize one day you can be a father or mother of a homosexual child,by not understanding their state of mind at that time,you are being cruel..to your own kin...so these articles are educating people the pain homosexuals go through,they are normal people ...thats what we should understand

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praveen
why society can't accept the truth
by praveen on Mar 31, 2011 05:53 PM  | Hide replies

Everyone has freedom to do whatever he likes.....no matter whats the concern unless it doesn't others.

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Maha Murkh
Re: why society can't accept the truth
by Maha Murkh on Mar 31, 2011 06:08 PM
wait! What do u mean by praveen "Everyone has freedom to do whatever he likes....."? This can only be applied to Animals. Humanbeing has certain criteria for which they are called human beings. Unsocial, Uncommon, Unnatural, these are the few words which are applied to human beings as we are SOCIAL. And it concerns others always when someone does something out of normal behavior. Is it allowable if someone (u said has freedom) will do Incest?

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pradeep menon
Re: Re: why society can't accept the truth
by pradeep menon on Apr 01, 2011 01:43 PM
you also talk like an animal...just shut your dimwitted mouth

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om shanti
Re: why society can't accept the truth
by om shanti on Mar 31, 2011 05:58 PM
Ok,fine,but donot spoil my straight kid,period.

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crazy architect
Re: Re: why society can't accept the truth
by crazy architect on Mar 31, 2011 06:16 PM
Nobody becomes gay by learning from others... In the same manner Nobody becomes a Straight Person by learning from others .. A person is either born straight or gay or bisexual and one cannot convert a person from one category to the other ...

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vikas bana
Re: Re: Re: why society can't accept the truth
by vikas bana on Mar 31, 2011 11:12 PM
no abolutly not, it is only experience of others and sexual suppression that leads to this. this is more mental than physical.


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shaketh
Re: Re: Re: Re: why society can't accept the truth
by shaketh on Apr 01, 2011 01:35 PM
if this is alright then why not legalise necrophelia(with dead bodies), animal s**,pedeophiles(with children). There are 16 forms why dont people start doing all this then and decriminalize it.

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pradeep menon
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: why society can't accept the truth
by pradeep menon on Apr 01, 2011 01:44 PM
why dont you try it!tahts perversion this is natural

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Pele Lele
Being a Gay is not an offence
by Pele Lele on Mar 31, 2011 05:50 PM

Since no body intentionally becomes a gay, it is a feeling that a man or woman automatically and unintentionallay feels and which he cant hide or change even if he wants to. So it is a creation of nature as it is and we have to accept it like many other disorders in the nature which exist.

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Amritraj
Lack of awareness
by Amritraj on Mar 31, 2011 05:45 PM  | Hide replies

It's unfortunate people here exist who actually cite their ignorance in a public forum.Science goes on to consolidate that homosexuality is not a lifestyle choice but rather sexual orientation is determined by genetics.To put things into context homosexuality is also found amongst animals too..It's just that most people are pretentious fools with double standards who lack the necessary mental capacity to understand this and make bigoted and ignorant statements . I understand that there shall be a lot of unnecessary abuse and slander for this post but that is to be expected from charlatans who lack the pedigree to put forth a tenable argument...thankee sai


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senthil vel
Re: Lack of awareness
by senthil vel on Mar 31, 2011 06:11 PM
good one sai.

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Jonny
Re: Lack of awareness
by Jonny on Mar 31, 2011 06:12 PM
We are humans not animals.

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tdharish
Re: Re: Lack of awareness
by tdharish on Apr 18, 2011 03:28 AM
Humans are also animals

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Prakash Chandra
Re: ...
by Prakash Chandra on Mar 31, 2011 05:44 PM
:)

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tom cat
Re: ...
by tom cat on Mar 31, 2011 05:47 PM
too many gadgets available today :)

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Maha Murkh
Re: ...
by Maha Murkh on Mar 31, 2011 05:51 PM
possibly an adapter in between? :)

Well, they are sick and need to be cured. Its kind of mental disorder.

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Ipsita S
Re: Re: ...
by Ipsita S on Mar 31, 2011 05:59 PM
apt name!

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Prakash Chandra
Re: ...
by Prakash Chandra on Mar 31, 2011 05:44 PM
:)

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Jonny
It is against nature
by Jonny on Mar 31, 2011 05:38 PM  | Hide replies

It is against nature. Men are created for women and women are for men. A man cannot have kids with a man and so is a woman.

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gaius octavian
Re: It is against nature
by gaius octavian on Mar 31, 2011 05:41 PM
homosexual behaviour was found in many animals like lions, elephants and penguins learn science

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om shanti
Re: Re: It is against nature
by om shanti on Mar 31, 2011 05:43 PM
possible i have seen dog trying to screw another dog..

but more than genetic,most cases in India are out of convinience..



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gaius octavian
Re: Re: Re: It is against nature
by gaius octavian on Mar 31, 2011 05:47 PM
how do you know what they are? stop inferring something you have no idea about.

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om shanti
Re: Re: Re: Re: It is against nature
by om shanti on Mar 31, 2011 05:50 PM
I have my personal experience.Please donot open my mouth in public forum,lol..that guy who wanted to eat the lolly pop and behaved like one is now a married man with one child.period.I have several encounters..

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Jonny
Re: Re: It is against nature
by Jonny on Mar 31, 2011 05:58 PM
True.. hut they are animals and we are humans. We have brain to think what is right and wrong.

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yohan vasanth
Re: Re: Re: It is against nature
by yohan vasanth on Apr 01, 2011 04:32 PM
Your first words are right we have brain, but second paragraph thinking right and wrong is what makes me think! (definition of RIGHT ,Justified, recognized, and protected.Your first words are right we have brain, but second paragraph thinking right and wrong is what makes me think! (Definition of RIGHT ,Justified, recognized, and protected.)

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tdharish
Re: Re: Re: It is against nature
by tdharish on Apr 18, 2011 03:35 AM
humans are also animals. Animals too hv brain. Does my argument make sense?
NO, jus like urs

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tom cat
Lives
by tom cat on Mar 31, 2011 05:36 PM  | Hide replies

Homosexuality is all in the mind. They need to get their thoughts right and they can live normal lives attracted to the opposite sex instead of the same sex.

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Amritraj
Re: Lives
by Amritraj on Mar 31, 2011 05:42 PM
It's unfortunate that people like you exist who actually cite their ignorance in public forum.Science goes on consolidate that homosexuality is not a lifestyle choice but sexual orientation is actually determined by genetics....It's just that most people are pretentious fools with double standards who lack the necessary mental capacity to understand this and make bigoted and ignorant statements like you have made here. I understand that there shall be a lot of unnecessary abuse and slander for this post but that is to be expected from charlatans who lack the pedigree to put forth a tenable argument...thankee sai

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Kanishk thakur
Re: Re: Lives
by Kanishk thakur on Mar 31, 2011 06:10 PM
well.. good response amrit. but i guess u shud have been a little more polite. an ignorant needs to be educated and not chided. as far as this post is concerned, really touching and very apt representation of a homosexual person in current society. what can one do with something which was given by God not selected by personal choice? homosexuality is not a curse and we Indians needs to be better educated about it to deal with it.
To rhyme it properly..
You can be boy
You can be girl
If nothing works out
A homosexual :)

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freedomofbengal
I thought
by freedomofbengal on Mar 31, 2011 05:36 PM  | Hide replies

This article is about Mohan das karamchand Gandhi!!

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yogesh singh
Re: I thought
by yogesh singh on Mar 31, 2011 05:56 PM
he was hetero since he kept two female assistants

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Pralay Chakrabarty
Re: Re: I thought
by Pralay Chakrabarty on Apr 01, 2011 01:24 AM
and also a jewish german bodybuilder boyfriend!

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om shanti
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by om shanti on Mar 31, 2011 05:35 PM  | Hide replies


I have no objection to others practicing homosexuality,it is their individual choice.But I feel,it is more of a perversion rather than natural trait in India.Our society tries to suppress sex,there is no freedom in expressing sexuality,thats why some people are getting involved in these things.

Society should be open enough to let people have sex at adult age as per their choice and mutual consent.

If you see a rediff forum you can feel this.Why we see so much hunger for sex? Most young guys are dying for sex.They are unable to divert their energies to more greater things.So,let them release their sexual energies and then let them concentrate in nation building.Or else you will see regular vulgar posts in forums,rape,molestation,and many other crimes...

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Pralay Chakrabarty
Re: ...
by Pralay Chakrabarty on Apr 01, 2011 01:29 AM
sex is a natural instinct and its only natural that people need sex atleast as much as they need food and drinks. pursuing greater things by depriving one of the basic necessities is impractical.
homosexuals remain homosexuals in spite of steady presence of members of opposite sex in their lives while other belong to different degrees of bisexuality. according to scientific researches homosexuality is not perversion but one of many natural expressions of human desire. no therapeutic conversion is possible since this is not a diesease.

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