The characters in your story were selfish and career oriented. They were just past time friends, only for movies and dinner. True friends dont separate so easily. There is a bond more stronger than family bond. There is no selfish motto in friendhip. True friendship last til death do us apart.
Re: Friendship
by Ajay Singh on Aug 01, 2010 09:25 AM
it also depends on the opposite person n situation....inspite of u wanting to renew old ties ppl will not be tht comfortable as they dont want you in their lives the same way!
A good friendship lasts through time. I have friends scattered in 6 continents. We don't keep in touch really. Some are on social networking sites. Yet, others are in the same city. Each day is 24 hours. Life is short. Things to be achieved everyday. Its the same for all of us. But, that doesn't mean we can't start off from where we left ages ago. Just a few days ago, I happened to visit Pittsburgh and met up with a friend I had last seen in 1997. We had some great time, discussed the past and dreamed of a future and wished each other luck. No expectations of meeting everyday, and no frustrations. Like love, friendship too need a certain degree of maturity and understanding.
This is a lame article, an out come of the thoughts of a lazy person who does not really know what friendship is, who is reluctant to know where his friends are or what they are doing and when he meets them he is ashamed of what both of them have been doing. Friends remain friends where ever they are. You can relive the time you spent with your friends every time you meet them when you are grown up. Just don't be shy of saying a hello every now or then. It takes absolutely some thing else than what this article has described. There is nothing like "leaving your old friends behind". Either you have friends or you don't. If you are friends, you will be friends forever and if you don't see them now, that means you were never friends. Long live FRIENDS!!!
Re: foolish, rude, out of experience, selfish article
by nobel on Aug 01, 2010 12:47 AM
I agree with you. The author doesnt understand real meaning of friends ship.
Re: foolish, rude, out of experience, selfish article
by raavan on Aug 01, 2010 02:13 AM
I agree to your views..the writer of this article has no clue of what true friendship is about...and its such astupid article to be published on friendship's day...(i hope the term "stupid" is not considered as online abuse)
Re: foolish, rude, out of experience, selfish article
by Atanu Chatterjee on Aug 01, 2010 12:38 AM
there can be people with different nature & perspective