Parents are first school for any child. one of the parent should stay at home to look after the child. Career , money and all social stupidity is of no value against life of ones offspring. it is duty of every parent to make their children tough mentally and physically and also moraly. If still careers are so important than why not throw the child in river as soon as they are born and start preparing for next one.
Re: Re: give time
by jayapalan jayapalan on Jan 08, 2010 01:16 PM
BE A FRIEND,FATHER,MOTHER,SISTER,BROTHER,GRAND MOTHER,GRAND FATHER,UNCLE ETC., IF YOU ARE A PARENT.THEN SEE THE DIFFERENCE.NEVER PRESS A CHILD FOR 1ST RANK. ONLY ONE IN A CLASS CAN GET FIRST. FIND OUT WHAT A CHILD LACKS AND WHERE AS A PARENT WE ARE WRONG....
i have good suggestions. But it should be taken seriously.
Switch off the TV. Ban Cricket. Stop using of internet and mobile.
Sleep early (including parents) ie maximum by 11 PM. Get up at 5AM. Take bath and light the lamb and pray for at least 10 minutes including parents. If possible have food together and find out time to chat together atleast for half an hour daily.
Dont exert to make more money. Earn money to meet the needs. Dont keep jealousy (parents) in mind or dont think bad things (parents). Try to help others if possible
Suggestion does not end here. But by following these rules itself the family will feel happy and the question of depression will not arise.
Re: to protect the child
by harakshan on Jan 05, 2010 09:38 PM
excellent suggestion. i accept it. parents have to be blamed for todays happenings. we are just following the western culture of materialism. our country has excellent culture and instead of following that we are running behind western culture and suffering.
our ancinet sages suggested to worship sun, earth,water, air, animals, birds and animals. westerners told this is superstition. we accepted it and laughed at our culture and started polluting the earth. today westerners are telling we have to preserve our earth, otherwise climate will change. we are believing this and going to give them money by importing machines and ecofriendly paints to preserve our earth. this is ludicruous. because no body can change the climate. only environment can be destroyed. not climate. environment has to be protected. if our culture is followed no child will get depression
Re: to protect the child
by mansi sharma on Jan 05, 2010 10:16 PM
wow..no cell phone, no mobile..that means child has full time and freedom to suicide..excellnt suggestion u mad man
Re: Re: to protect the child
by Aditya Srivastava on Jan 05, 2010 10:52 PM
Thank God Mansi you also think ko sru is a mad man. I thought people were actually getting insane like these two:)!!!
Re: Re: Re: to protect the child
by shashwat kirwai on Jan 06, 2010 10:26 AM
But these 2 are right All these so called development has only lead to ecological breakdown. Since man is also part of ecosystem we are also suffering breakdown. And that was really stupid. I hope u think that a person who has mor time has higher possibility of suicide. This is really funny.
Re: to protect the child
by sandeep eedara on Jan 06, 2010 10:21 AM
Hi guys avoiding cellphones,internet etc etc wont save childs life, please make them aware at earliest what needs to lead life, education itself not make the people settle in life parents should give their suggessions and support what ever the result may be and should take care of mistakes without repeating again this will happen only when they spend their precious time with their childs instead of running behind of money
Basically the idea that should be inculcated in the mind of a child is that - it is never necessary to perform excellently in school (or in work place, at a later stage) in order to be happy in life. He or she should be taught to grow as an 'individual' in his/ her own capacity and from the senior's side there should never be any 'comparison' with others. It is actually a matter of fact that actual peace or happiness never come from 'wealth'. A person doing ordinary job can definitely live a much better life (with happiness) than a person whoc has been making working very hard and excellent results throughout in his' her life. Ultimately it is peace of mind that matters and that has nothing to do wealth.
Re: Re: A child's psyche
by shyam roy on Jan 06, 2010 10:42 AM
Thanks. But how can we really spread this idea? Living one's own life in the mannner he/ she thinks fit and without comparing with others will really bring happiness and emove inter-personal conflict. I think, the schools also have a major role to play in this matter.
Basically the idea that should be inculcated in the mind of a child is that - it is never necessary to perform excellently in school (or in work place, at a later stage) in order to be happy in life. He or she should be taught to grow as an 'individual' in his/ her own capacity and from the senior's side there should never be any 'comparison' with others. It is actually a matter of fact that actual peace or happiness never come from 'wealth'. A person doing ordinary job can definitely live a much better life (with happiness) than a person whoc has been making working very hard and excellent results throughout in his' her life. Ultimately it is peace of mind that matters and that has nothing to do wealth.
I think parents understanding and expectations with offspring matters a lot. We all know that our fingers are not same then how can children be all similar, that is just not possible. So being a parent one should see child's capacity and capability to do things. Do not force your dreams on child , let the child grow as an individual with his own dreams.
this is the result of stuind competition. when the children are supposed to enjoy life we are burdening them with study, study and study with 9 subjects and 36, 200 pages notebook, can we expect this much at this age. Intelligent people who have prepared curriculum, must think on that. How can you expect a student of 3rd standard to know what is meant by tsumani, spelling of distinguish, construction, lopsided, sitting bestride etc. why to burden them. neither the parents nor their teachers are bothered about it. Life is not just study but enjoyment also.
I heard many time do this and that to save life, but why dont we think about indian educational structure, earlier qaartly exams to be held and now every month what is this Tution tution home work, School homework, no time for rest not time for play, only there is competetion not encouragemnt who doesnt seem to be compete who will take them ahead you or me it s whole and sole resposibilites of school and teacher not parents, i never woke up at 4 PM even in 10th but now a days 3dr year student have to wake up at 3 AM for studies what is this have they born for study or to live life with the healp of education
i heard eisnstien's story that his name actually means "Stone" in German... and his teachers and friends used to call him that beecause he was dumb in school days... but who knew what was boiling and cooking under that membrane ... Glamorize the history of such people ... i think students would take some courage from such stories
Re: people like einstien should be made a role model
by pravin sarode on Jan 05, 2010 02:02 PM
even thomas alva edison had night mare experience 99 percent hard work & 1 percent intelligence
