Pity that UK or USA Poll reflect indian society in ur view.... Tomorrow, U will survey and give us feed back to indians that Dont drink Coke cans more than 5 a day, when people here struggle to get one meal. If sex is the greatest thing of life, then great business men would have entered this industry. Do something realistic and remember those guys giving poll in dating sites will not be true in real case.
Its all about pre-marriage affairs, usually an american or a european gets hooked up on an average of more than 20 times bfore marriage...so they have the habit of changing partners...no wonder how they can stay with a single partner..i personally witnessed it as i work in hotel industry in dubai
Really pity Rediff, joined rediff because it's one real Indian website. It is a pitty Indians are fidning it really hard to survive even in the internet media. The 'rediff pages' they are promoting on the home page follow bikini girls, follow 'gori kir daru party', it is really really a pity that we have to depend only on cheap news to attract users. Sex is not a taboo, we can talk about it. Talking about decline of sex life after marriage, are we encouraging sex before marriage. Bad thing if Existing is bad, Encouraging is wrose thing to happen
It is a completely misleading article and should not be put on web in indian context. We are human beings - not animals. It is only for them sex is every thing. Human being has to go beyond sex only attitude. One must have a higher goal in life and try to climb up the ladder of evolution. From man to super man one can reach only by his own conscious effort. Dont waste this rare chance of being born in human body with intact senses by indulging in illicit sex. People do enjoy monogamous life and bring auspiciousness for them selves and their surroundings. We Indians must not got for this lower western concept of sex.
Re: What rubbish!
by vikram kumar on Aug 28, 2010 07:29 PM
for your kind information for animals sex is the last preference. They do it only for reproduction unlike humans who also do it for pleasure
Re: What rubbish!
by abhishek kulkarni on Aug 28, 2010 10:58 AM
Dear Alok, As you said 'man has to go beyond the sex only attitude', i think one doesn't really have to get married in order to justified. There are lot of other disadvantages that one tends to overlook buddy..i have not only seen my other friends, i used to think my marital life would be different, then i got married and realised everybody's in the same boat (we aren't talking about exceptions here) man. One can develop this attitude you are mentioning, even without getting into bonded labour. Thanks anyway for being so patriotic about this outdated institution.
If only any smart soul can help me understand the meaning of SEX LIFE, I would read this article. Sex is just an activity we do in life, something that is wished more by man than women. In any society, there is no life without a spouse and extra marital sex is seen as symbol of infidelity and corruptness.
what a rubbist, ediotic survey, indians are used love and very much attached to the items they are using for a long time( pen, chair, house, vehicle etc) eventhough the items outdated and out of use they kept as antiquity item. this is the actual indian culture what ever it may be the religion.
Re: It's official! Marriage is bad for your sex life
by Bad Man on Aug 27, 2010 03:14 PM
@theIndian, Wake up wake up wake up.... many people belive that seks is the only purpose of life,to get to know/interact/touch many females of diff ages is fascinatinng..to say the least.
People are doing it now anywhere they find a chance be t office,shopping mall or staircase. This is why we live,to interact with many gals and establishing further intimate relationship with them is just irresistingly heavenly.
Re: It's official! Marriage is bad for your sex life
by Bad Man on Aug 27, 2010 03:26 PM
@THEINDIAN, as examples i have many female colleagues who are friends with me but i surely want more out of our friendship than just good conversation..sometimes i get it..and it's just natural to imagine with your boss..and how can you not imagine with the young college-going gal next door ?...and while u travel by bus and a attractive middle-wged woman sitting next to you what goes on your mind no need to tell here.
of marriage/relationship failures in today’s world - reading this eomse corporate women get the encouragement.
1. Girls wear clothes that would attract unwanted attention all sorts of public on the street.All these they do under the cover of "freedom and economic independance". People objecting to it are branded as “mean” and “narrow-minded”. 2. Girls already in marriage/committed relationships talk to any guy on trains,buses,in office..roam around with any guy saying "He is my pal !"......go to pubs with guys/colleagues and drink,smoke,clap together,laugh out loud shamelessly. And if the bf/hubby dislikes it he is "old-fashioned,controlling,possessive" and what not !! The poor guy thanks himself for not being branded as the "worst possible human being" ! 3. The “male friends” then start touching the gal in the name of "friendly hug" or "friendly touch" or "applying colours during Holi". And today's loose-character gals just enjoy it in the name of friendship. Why can they not think that these things may be objectionable to their partners ? Friend, pal, buddy, are all euphemistic terms to conceal the underlying motives which sometimes operate as sublime and sub-conscious currents.When opposite
This is normal. People always desire the things which do not possess. Once they get them, initially they are excited but over a period of time excitement diminishes. May be because of sameness. Take the example of a child. They are very happy when they get a new toy. But moment they get bored by playing with it, they either do not play with it or urge for a new one. So I feel this article or survey is nothing new. Only thing it may be read by many is because there is the word s*x attached to it. We Indians are very fond of this word. So reader's please don't waste your time by reading this (not so new) article like I wasted.
Survey appears to be biased, one can enjoy maximum with his own wife only. Feeling of ownness boosts the courage and enjoyment which completely lacks in others cases.
Re: Married life
by Boom Shankar on Aug 28, 2010 07:25 AM
Very true why we Indians forget our Culture n Tradition still the soul of our life and go on imitating UK n US for no sake. Marriage has very diff meaning in Indian people but media want to show which is quickly marketable.
