its better to be bachleor ..no marriage no worries life is in your hand. make career make money..and enjoy yourself...have plenty of fun...no body to bother....live life king size..only thing be decent.
Re: Re: Re: Stay alone
by Vivek Kumar on Apr 18, 2009 11:59 PM
Indian men should learn to reinvent themselves, ok here is a scenario, white men in US treat relationship in terms of benefit, care for lady but if you get same care in return, else dump her and look for next girl, ironically too many beautiful women are available in west but not in India so that is issue, sex ratio is unequal, secondly emotionally one has to be mature, think women just like yourself, she is a creature who will do everything as per her choice and benefits, in case of India she will do those things bit diplomatically, will become women where she gets privilege, will ask equality where she gets privileges, guys first of all don't marry a woman who is not equal to you in status, be very calculative, is she making same money, what is her education, will you need to bear load like donkey, go for pre nuptial agreements to avoid jail because of false dowry cases. At the top frank is right learn to stay alone, make money, have good life style, do jogging, exercise, take care of your hygiene, see the world, forget screwing your lives for girls, Atleast educated guys can start this way, rural India still will take 100 more years, Some political and operational system also needs to be corrected. In US population is only 30 Crore, land is 4 times than India, In India population is 112 Crores and land is 1/4th of India. System is revamping so guys or men in 22-35 just develop your maturity, stop taking things at heart, we all r alone these days so learn it.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Stay alone
by vandana rahsi on Jun 04, 2009 05:29 PM
man u r so practical...but emotions r natural..how hard u try u can never overcome them i blv lov shud b d 1st factor in marriage...den comes d rest
a man goes to work at 9 am. returns at 7.30 pm. husband asks for water. wife brings boiling water saying fridge is not working. husband drinks it. husband waits for tea. wife does not bring. hsbnd asks for it. wife says no sugar, no millk. hands over the 6 month baby..and goes to sleep saying she is not well but spends another hr in talking with friend on phone. hsbnd brings dinner...at 11 hsbnd tries to sleep, she starts nagging that husband has no time for her. husband tries to sleep ignoring wife..wife, all of a sudden, rises from the bed, wakes up the husband and asks him y he didnt call her in the afternoon..argument grows..wife calls parents..FIL threats husband of jail...husband either goes to bed with baby in lap or goes to jail forgetting about the baby forever...
Re: Re: Re: a typical scene...
by indi on Apr 18, 2009 02:20 PM
dude women are different... would you like a women behaving like a man... talking only when necessary... to the point ... giving advices and stuff... no riught???
THey have a character whcih is different and maybe difficult for us to handle... it is worthwhile to try to appreciate that and see what they would like and why is she so aloof... is it boredom.. lack of attention... whatever...
Re: Re: Re: Re: a typical scene...
by manisha mishra on Apr 18, 2009 02:41 PM
I think there is more to this than just what seems.... a relationship needs work just like a baby.... we need to step out of our comfort zone to make it work and sometimes also to put our foot down.... i have met females who've been the cause of discord and then there are men too.... convincing our minds to stop expecting and trying to understand the situatioon takes time and effort but it really makes people come closer and makes the bond stronger..... and mind it!.... its not just written in books.
Re: Love
by indi on Apr 18, 2009 02:26 PM
dude most of chefs are men... does that mean women dont know how to cook... dont take facts are face value...
Re: Love
by Neha Sharma on Jun 03, 2009 07:23 PM
excuse me? what the hell are you talking about? almost all the romantic writers of recent times have been women. have you ever seen a mills and boon that was written by a man?
Re: :-)
by krishna tripathi on Apr 18, 2009 01:48 PM
all think so until they end up in jail where they first think "ohhhh!! this is women's world actually...contrary to the popular belief!!!"
indian society has a took to walking on a path of no return; we have will have a huge social challenge staring us in the face few years from now. almost of catastrophic proportions.
Since men in India have been taught to be faithful to their wives and keep the relationship till the end of life for sake of their children and honour of family, 50% of people are being emotionally blackmailed by their wives. Divorce are much more in case of working couples, because they know that their partners can sustain without each others help. But where the women can't find job or is poor is killing a husband emotionally including being unfaithful (not known to their husbands). Divorcee women should be given pensions to empower women so that men can live happily and peaceful by throwing bad women out of their houses. Every Indian male will contribute to a corpse fund if created by Govt.
Re: helpless and hopeless men
by krishna tripathi on Apr 18, 2009 12:44 PM
true..when will the voice of men be heard?? there does not seem a ray of hope. if the wife is not working, the husband is almost killed by the bad relationship and he has no where to go. he cant get divorce easily without coughing up huge money and spending a week in jail even if he has done nothing wrong..
Re: Re: helpless and hopeless men
by varun agrawal on Apr 18, 2009 12:54 PM
thats true, The non working ladies always keep on cribing and at the same time they dont have respect for money.
Re: Re: helpless and hopeless men
by indi on Apr 18, 2009 02:10 PM
what the hell is wrong with you guys... gripping like cry babies... get a life dude...
Re: Re: Re: helpless and hopeless men
by manisha mishra on Apr 18, 2009 02:45 PM
hee hee.... yeah!..... tell them!!! seriously..... w.t.f!!! I don't think its gender specific issue anymore.... its more to do with the personalities thrown together in these situation.
