that's why rediff is a perfect digital toilet. 99.99 crore of janata doesnt give a sqat, and remaining people dont read rediff or vice versa. End of the day, if Mr. Johnson a.k.a. pp a.k.a. little john a.k.a. your little brother is a hard worker and you have enough vitamin M, u r a man, rest all is myth.
Men will always be adored by their masculinity and strength of character and women will always be adored for sensitivity. However in the present age where the fittest survives, men and women want to be with a partner who would bring in security in life. Security in terms of monetary matters, in terms of strength of character, security in terms of unconditional love. It is easier to identify the first parameter however people go in circles trying to find the second and third. When a man and woman goes in search for a mate, they seek a secure future. If a materialist thing like money ensures secure future, why would pple not go for it, after all it is in human nature to survive.
However, does that mean that people who do not drive sedans dont find love, they do. Its easier said that men and women run behind money, if it were true, pple with money would be chased likes Bollywood stars are chased. But that doesn't matter. A man and woman will only 'choose' from pple accessible around them.
As far as these terminologies are concerned, these are created by the media to fill up their websites.
I've never seen people avidly write such rubbish without thinking. If you feel women marry according to a bank balance- you're talking to women with no mind at all. Life is not at all measured in those sole terms.
Compatibility and sensitivity are two key ingredients for any happy relationship.
We as females, are not talking about men crying their eyes out at a baby commercial or something, but rather that they have the maturity and sensitivity to consider someone but their own needs. No man would like it if a woman were inconsiderate to them or disrespected them- so don't bother trying the same principle with a female with a mind.
If you want a blonde bimbo- great- but don't ask for the world and be surprised when you don't get what you expected.
Fact is you can demand all you like but ask yourself this- if you want a "good girl" are you a "good guy?". I think not from any of the above.....
Re: RE: What a load of bull....
by krishna tripathi on Apr 18, 2009 11:23 AM
agree sharma ji...the problem is, we men dont have a platform...we cant speak our grievances. women have all sorts of organisations. they dump u for any reason...they blame u for crimes which u never committed. in case of any matrimonial dispute, all women invariably say that husband is demanding dowry even if dowry is not at all the issue. a woman can harrass a man to hell if she so desires...
Re: RE: What a load of bull....
by Rk Sharma on Apr 16, 2009 03:09 AM
Women in India need too much without doing anything, why you expect males to be your servant for whole life. If you make 2 lakhs boy needs to make 4 lakhs, if you make even Rs 5000 you put in your matrimonial ad only IIT/IIMs/Top US Schools like MIT/Harvard/Stanford should apply, what is this crap. Than you need joker to make you laugh apart from earning money to give you best life, Indian males life is most deteriorated in entire world, that is what i have seen after working in US, Europe, London, everywhere. Women just blame poor men and complain, why don't you work like western women, why you are so calculative, why why why, why Indian men needs to stay as a loyal dog, why magical feeling, X-Factor, Compatibility, humor is only for you,, Can you explain
Re: Re: RE: What a load of bull....
by jj disco on Apr 16, 2009 03:45 AM
Very well said Sharma, I am in USA for past 4 years, I have a lot of American ladies. Most are not gold diggers and don't run after rich guys in the name of settled, earning, well to do etc etc. That is why they are so independent and deserve respect. Where as when it comes to Indian women they are so insecure and want someone 'N' times richer than them, then how can ask for equality in relationship.
Re: Re: Re: Re: RE: What a load of bull....
by Vivek Kumar on Apr 18, 2009 10:54 AM
Whatever you wrote is outstanding, boys are just treated like some dogs by women in India, i agree, go work, listen to boss, girls father acts so greedy, study at top institute otherwise Indian princess won't marry, and now these days dance like Joker to make her laugh, but it is endless, woman wants so much that better to stay without them if possible, it is not worth it. May be White guys know how to tackle women that is why they work also in US, Europe, here in India, the one who makes 5000 Rs want someone making 6 lakhs atleast a year, else she won't marry, Look at matrimonial ads, very tough life for males, it is all about woman, false dowry cases, crap, seems they want to kill all males.
This talk of SNAGs (sensitive new age guys), metrosexuals, retrosexuals and neosexual men is all bullshit. What makes women of all age group go weak in the keens is your bank balance folks. So if you have the moolah, dont worry even if you dont fit into the definition of 'neosexual'. Women will still be attracted to you (or should I say your moolah?). Dont believe me? Read any matrimonial ad or visit any college campus.
Re: LETS CUT THE CRAP
by Gaurav Sharma on Apr 15, 2009 06:39 PM
well said Sam, it's all about the money innit. Guess the ladder theory does make sense: laddertheory dot com
========== "They want the manliness of a James Bond [Images], the looks of Hugh Jackman [Images], the humour of Jim Carrey and the youth of Zac Efron," he added. ============ May be they should also include fierceness of a tiger, strength of an elephant, stealth of a leopard and vitality of a Walrus :-)
1. Indian girls are most materialistic, see how they marry, it is all about them, Money, Money and Money, their is demand for everything else also apart from money.
2.Indian boys are not getting advanced, look at white guys, see their guts, you Indian guys will get on four to beg for sex, come on grow up, that is why India women treat you like shit. Look how respectful they are towards white guys, see condition of Indian girls in US, Europe or anywhere, will treat Indian male like nonsense and will treat white guy like God. Why is Indian male servant for whole life.
3.You need to have great education, be money making machine, you need to work like bull for whole life to take care of Indian princess who won't do anything in whole life except being bossy, all this for what, to sleep with her. This is trend especially in North India. Girls just blame men
4. Indian woman want X-Factor, compatibility, understanding, passion, romance, connection and now humor also. It is poor country, are we even out of basic necessities. while on one hand Indian women level has raised to 10, Indian men are just at level 1. Indian women want best of western as well as Indian, Culture , although what is culture in India is debatable now, Indian women want everything from west but why don't u work like western women, why do u expect Indian men to be loyal dog for whole life, Do white men do that ever.
Can Indian Men meet expectations, greed and next level evolution of modern Indian women?
Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by inside man on Apr 17, 2009 08:27 AM
yes,ur right about indian women.But the condition of white men is also not that great with the feminism culture in the west which we are aping. Indian men better wake up or we will be forming sites like henrymakow.com previously savethemales.org
Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by kuldakuldi on Apr 15, 2009 07:30 PM
RK SHARMA ;WHAT EVER U TOLD IS 100% RIGHT.EACH AND EVERY WORD IS TRUE.INDIAN MEN SHOULD REALISE IT.OTHERWISE THEY R THE ONES WHO WILL BE DOOMED.IN NORTH INDIA ITS MORE AS MEN THERE LOOKS MASCULINE BUT THEY R JHORU KA GHULAM.NOW A DAYS EVEN IN SOUTH INDIA THIS CONDITION IS PREVALENT.ATLEAST INDIAM MEN REALISED IT NOW AND MEND THEMSELVES OTHERWISE THIER LIFE WILL BE NO BETTER THAN DOGS.
Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by samir kelshikar on Apr 15, 2009 09:50 AM
Hmmmm.....dont u get that ur part of this bandwagon or u are more comfortable commenting on other women ans easily avoiding urself ! U have to get ur facts right....Indian men have changed...wonder who you're hangin out with all the time....
Re: Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by krishna tripathi on Apr 18, 2009 11:44 AM
actually its the other way round samir ji. u r living in 20th century when women were abla nari. actually i wonder that u have really married a cow like woman..like those talked about in the medival period..today's woman can make u go mad and still complain that u torture her...
Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by Blessings All on Apr 18, 2009 08:03 AM
Good post RK.. you get it and I get what you are saying. Indian girls are big drama queens... the stay at home are the worst.. they sleep whole day and then complain oh I have so many things to do and my husband does not take care of me and I am so tired and my life has no fun etc etc
Re: Re: Men need to get facts straight in India
by Vivek Kumar on Apr 18, 2009 10:52 AM
Whatever you wrote is outstanding, boys are just treated like some dogs by women in India, i agree, go work, listen to boss, girls father acts so greedy, study at top institute otherwise Indian princess won't marry, and now these days dance like Joker to make her laugh, but it is endless, woman wants so much that better to stay without them if possible, it is not worth it. May be White guys know how to tackle women that is why they work also in US, Europe, here in India, the one who makes 5000 Rs want someone making 6 lakhs atleast a year, else she won't marry, Look at matrimonial ads, very tough life for males, it is all about woman, false dowry cases, crap, seems they want to kill all males.
