Re: Life goes on..
by Irfan on Apr 16, 2009 10:40 AM
No point carrying on with dull marriage.. if some one is more demanding dont think twice just give him/her the boot. You only live once.. live with as many u can
Excellent article,i must say. we humans are subject to the fastest changes life has to offer, we gotta catchup with it and somehow bend and slide together to keep this relation alie. it always takes two to tango, i believe both have to accept change and understand and feel the importance of each other always, anywhere and anythime and in all situations. fault findig has to take the boot now even the back seat, if you have to get this institution going on. life is all about sharing, caring ,giving and COMPROMISE.These 3 case studies are an excellent example of how 3 great lovebirds couples drifted away, for where they could hae surely saved their day. in such times it does not take much time to turn milk sour,and once sour it never turns back to milk. a hard fact bnut very true. good luck to all here . colin
Re: Re: kep the flame burning
by Arun C on Apr 16, 2009 02:07 PM
If only married couple could understand that its a mind game, our societies would be happier and life would be so fulfilling for pple.
today selfishness is increasing. at the moment one finds out that he / she can get something better he/she moves out of this..todays modern and westren culture preaches all these things..it also preaches zerotolerance for the things. it is basically a consumerism culture, in which no one can see themselves lacking behind even for the small things and wants top class things in every matters.i think india will slowly become like west where marrige n divorce has become just a child play, and LUST is ruling over the life of the peoples
Re: selfishness and lust rules todays
by Rk Sharma on Apr 17, 2009 11:49 PM
Too much expectations which are unrealistic, life has pressure, people may start something but things change, Girls want too much, behave they want, talk the way they want, it is too much now a days, western world is all about productivity and output, everyone is tool, you don't perform, other person will move on. Indians are very selfish, chalta hai, all are on their own, so whosoever can survive they will, i saw some marriages in older generation working, these days best thing is pay and get the job done, Don't get headache, it is not easy to meet expectations of other person in zero tolerance zone, pay and get services, just like western world. Be professional.
