madam,We have a love marriage since 4 years ago. Everything was going well. But now he is become very short temper. Whenever I asked him anything, i dont know how he will react. Sometime he said nothing and sometime he become so hyper that i couldnot understand what he wants. Now we are a parent of a one and a half year old daughter. He does not sleep with us in the night. Only if he wants sex, he came to me and i dont know why i always said yes to him. I cant discuss these things with my mother as she is a heart paitent. things are now going really worst. now i m scared to talk to him. I really want to die becoz i cannot handly all this anymore.
madam,our love i feel is very much true. but i feel that in-spite of all my shortcomings which i admit, the way my wife cold shoulders and ignore me when i need her and cry out for her in a hard to get kind of way is giving me thoughts of ending our marriage which i know 100% will break my heart and our sons bright futures. its 3am in the morning, i had woken up with unpleasant dreams and called out to her, she was purposely slow, i asked for my bible which she brought from another room turn the other side and gone back to sleep or just ignoring me again, like many times before. so here i am in another room sending mail for the first time in my life after i found you when i typed "marriage problems" because i want help and don't want to be accused of not trying to save our marriage later on..
My husband is a nice person. The problem is that he is always under the influence of his mother and sisters. She always interferes in all matters. It is 10 yrs of marriage and I still don't have any say in family finances.He always complains about my parent not respecting his mother and giving her any satisfied gifts eventhough they take atmost care my in laws are not satisfied. what do i do he always digs the past and abuses my parents for not doing according to their satisfaction. I can't tolerate anyone saying anything to my parents nor do I have any reason to leave him.
My husband is a nice person but he is always under the influence of his mother and elder sisters. his mother is very possesive about him to such exten that she never let him become my husband in true sense.He always keeps complaining about my parents not respecting his mother or not givivg gifts to her,eventhough my parents make efforts to do and give the best.All past things are repeated now and then leavin me with no peace of mind .please tell me how to coope up with this. i can't listen anything against my parents nor I have reason to leave him.
My husband is a nice person but he is always under the influence of his mother and elder sisters. his mother is very possesive about him to such exten that she never let him become my husband in true sense.He always keeps complaining about my parents not respecting his mother or not givivg gifts to her,eventhough my parents make efforts to do and give the best.All past things are repeated now and then leavin me with no peace of mind .please tell me how to coope up with this. i can't listen anything against my parents nor I have reason to leave him.
My husband is a nice person but he is always under the influence of his mother and elder sisters. his mother is very possesive about him to such exten that she never let him become my husband in true sense.He always keeps complaining about my parents not respecting his mother or not givivg gifts to her,eventhough my parents make efforts to do and give the best.All past things are repeated now and then leavin me with no peace of mind .please tell me how to coope up with this. i can't listen anything against my parents nor I have reason to leave him.
