in olden days we never lusted like todays youth. we listened to parents and married inside caste. nowdays with western influence youth indulge in sex , drugs and marry whomever they want .
Re: ban it
by Du Haust on Feb 06, 2009 11:06 AM Permalink
so u think there was no love in those days. one should know tht, women in those days were no as educated as it is now. in todays world both need to work. and both husband and wife wont b able to meet in their very own house becoz they work in diff time. there arises a gap. unless one has complete trust on the other u cant survive in marriage. and i find love marriage is better in this respect. both of them can cum to sum compromise and work on marriage.
Re: ban it
by deepak on Feb 05, 2009 03:24 PM Permalink
Result egoism, early divorse, isolated child, no respect for elder. This VD-cum-pub culture is colourful for youth but for old aged people it is a hell.
Re: Re: ban it
by PAPAPIPI on Feb 06, 2009 09:12 AM Permalink
Egoism was not there in early days.all wars of yester years are the balance sheet of Egoism.That days girls used to get married at 10 and boys 13 or 14 and they used to indulge in physical relation in teenage it self ,is it ok.That time also slavery and untouchability existed in world wide.a 65 old dalit can be trashed by a 15 year old upper caste,is it the respect for elders.
Re: ban it
by satya para on Feb 05, 2009 03:23 PM Permalink
How do you know that today's youth are lusting? Today's youth is a lot more vibrant and intelligent lot than you think. Lear to accept chnage.
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by lakshya vade on Feb 06, 2009 09:34 AM Permalink
more vibrant and intelligent so is the egoistic and hence youth is suffering more than senior. you get married n have a children you will understand why culture & society is important so that your wife, daughter or sister are proud for your family.
Re: ban it
by avishek ranjan on Feb 06, 2009 09:22 AM Permalink
You may be partly right, but in those days people stood hours in ques to get tickets for Helen movies.....n that everyone knows why....everything which is so OPEN today was there at the back of mind in those days....only it was not openly indulged in !
Re: ban it
by Jerrin Varghese on Feb 05, 2009 03:26 PM Permalink
It is not because of VDay. It is because of media and how parents are helping and guiding their children to grow up morally and socially. Parents has to teach them how to live and behave in our culture.
