so u think there was no love in those days. one should know tht, women in those days were no as educated as it is now. in todays world both need to work. and both husband and wife wont b able to meet in their very own house becoz they work in diff time. there arises a gap. unless one has complete trust on the other u cant survive in marriage. and i find love marriage is better in this respect. both of them can cum to sum compromise and work on marriage.