lets face it.today is world of full materialistic.money is root to build a strong marital relationship.it is right people comes to marriage money....lets face it and live it.may be u differ in opinion but your parents not.he knows how money evolve and create and substain all relationship....money hai to honey hai...dear.
hey guys frankly speaking I feel that today everything is commercialized. In todays world your societal status, reputation and happiness depends on money. Nobody can deny it. So whats wrong if somebody poor with a good personality and sense of humour; attracts a richer guy or girl and gets married to improve his/her standard of living? After all once you have enough money to feed you; you can bring all sort of comforts and can have mental relief to make your marriage work. Love and commitment will come along as time goes by. Think about it. Its purely practical and realistic.
Re: Money
by Anuj Goyal on Jun 01, 2009 07:37 PM Permalink
marriage is commitment not prostitution and marriage for money is future planing. Reconsider your statement and definition of prostitution.
Marriage is not only physical relationship, however its much more, marrying for dowry is wrong but marrying for money is nothing bad. Its as important as anything
Re: Re: Money
by Perfect stranger on Jun 02, 2009 10:05 AM Permalink
i think you have daughter. Would you accept my million dollar dowry to marry your daughter? I think that is all you would want from men now. If marriage for money is good for women then why not for men? you are proponent of dowry and also confuse yourself with gender equality.
If society has degraded today, it is mainly because of the media which is promoting commercialisation of life and materialism. Marrying for money? What rubbish! Why marry at all then? A relationship that is based on mere money and material goods is bound to collapse. We are human beings and not robots or money making ATMs. The author and the website of rediff need to be more responsible and promote good values through articles. We need to eradicate social evils such as commercialisation of life and materialism.
couples please stay with your parents, the best way to beat recesion. save maximum saving & then plan for a better house. todays world is responsible as loans are avialble easily & compitation with in relatives are playing havoc in society. keep your expense in control as at 50 you different then what you are in your 20's or 30's . money in not going to flow in your hand permanently.
Marrying for love is a bollywood promoted concept. It is pure bullshit. Marriage is basically a contract between 2 individuals (Male & Female) to co-habit together and sire offsprings. So priority should be given to cultural similarities, financial compatibility between the 2 families etc... Ultimately the success of marriage does not depend on love but the commitment of the two individuals. Also, Marriage is not a union of 2 individuals, but of 2 families. So the bride and groom should go with the decision of their parents.....
Re: My 2 cents...
by Tirthankar Ghosh on Jun 01, 2009 05:50 PM Permalink
Please do not try to define thing you cannot. On the one hand, you are talking about commitment but at the same time you are saying... "It is pure bullshit"... Great joke of the century yaar... honestly...
Re: My 2 cents...
by Tall Male on Jun 01, 2009 06:04 PM Permalink
Krishna, Are human beings robots without any emotional needs? Perhaps you are one who is fully commercialised and looks at life and everything from a commercial point of view. But marriage is not and cannot be based on money. Marriage is not just for making children or co-habiting. Why co-habit and why have kids in the first place? Lastly, what kind of commitment are you referring to and what for??? Commitment between two robots? And marriage is not a relationship between two families. It is because of interference of family members that there are more and more divorces today.
