The problem is that the world of fashion, television, film, etc, is run by misogynists and by people who seem to think that they know what a woman should look like. How can people admire the likes of Victoria Beckham and the other stick-thin women out there, who go around starving themselves? Men are beginning to go the same way as well. These people are deluding themselves if they think that they are attractive, and the fashion and entertainment industries have a lot to answer for.
Hi feel thin is not attractive. One must look nice, fresh and healthy. I like to maintain my weight but more than that i want to keep my body in shape. For me its very important to look in good shape rather than what hte weighing scale depicts. Currently I am trying to get my body back in shape but thats got nothing to do with losing weight. Its the inch loss that i feel is most important. In persuit of losing weight I know of people who go on crash diet and all but that does not help, rather its harmful in the long run. I believe in eat healthy, stay healthy, fit and in good shape.
RE:Thin <> attractive
by sham on Sep 20, 2006 06:34 PM Permalink
Thin or Bulgy depends on the taste but if you are thinking on beauty may be both for sexual point the thin is more enjoy
as a gal , i m not really all dat despo 2 reduce weight coz i m neither thin nor fat , must confess dat i dont hv an hour glass figure so may b i wud luv 2 shed off 3-4 kgs but not more than dat , n i m a big foodie so crash deiting is out of question , i can give up sweets , colas n chips but cant give up food completely,i wud die if i did dat , no kidding !
RE:No crash dieting 4 me !
by love on Sep 21, 2006 12:14 AM Permalink
What ever be the size I love women of all types with nice smiling faces that seems to be like fresh water
No, I dont think so....that really depends on youself that how you carry yourself. Women looks good even if they are fluffy ...... It's only depends on your perception , the way you look at ........
RE:thin = attracted.
by ashwani rai on Sep 21, 2006 10:03 AM Permalink
agree with u, woman with good physicqe and body preparation can look arttaractive .......... ashwani, 9810353399
Hi! Its true that even indian gals are hell bent today on shedding weight and emulate their foreign counterparts, but this ban imposed on stick-thin galz will bring along wid it a fresh new attitude among gals, probably!! What they dnt understand is that its more imp to be fit and healthy rather than being thin and weak.
I have a sweet galfrnd of my own, and she has a 'real' big prblm when it comes to shedding her extraa lipid. She wudnt eat for days together or skip dinner continuously for weeks before visitng my place or if sumone comments on her looks, esp me. What she doesnt undestand is that its more imp to have a healthy glow on her face, sum good amt of flesh on her cheeks ( for me to press ) and enough stamina and power to sustain long hours of travelling and shaking her legs at the disc!!!
Anyways I would always prefer her to be the way she is now a.k.a Namitha of south indian films, u no that is what the true indian beauty is all about....curvaceous and bosomy!! And in no ways thin and sick-looking!!
RE:Well sadly its true that most gals wanna shed weight!
by Venu on Sep 20, 2006 06:59 PM Permalink
hi tell her to change the food habit, eating more of raw food with fiber rich rather than not eating, the glow will come naturally with in a couple of months and will be permanant.
i would always prefer women with luscious curvy figure.
i hate the mad trend that is followed today to be so thin. i don't understand the logic behind that. would girls prefer men who are equally thin as they are ? i mean what is there in a women who is having a skeleton body.the body should be tonned but not upto that extent.
RE:my choice!
by munna on Sep 20, 2006 07:00 PM Permalink
big deal! i know keralites like big fat bulgy body, with folds everywhere. THats why they adore shakeela
RE:my choice!
by Deep on Sep 21, 2006 02:39 PM Permalink
Here the issue is not regarding any one's locality or region, it's about thin or fat.. Of course what u said(malayali's have beautiful body) is true.
in my opinion, beauty means healthy body.a thin girl may not have a healthy body.as a keralite,i never like to be thin since it is opposite to malayali beauty concepy.we can easily verify from rajaravivarmas picture that the malayali beauti concept is entirely different
RE:beauty concept
by ayz on Sep 20, 2006 07:13 PM Permalink
well said sangeetha a malayali beauty is always seductive she's always got the body carved round with sensuous curves oh she's a soooooo desirable i think women need to have it heavier rather than feather light bodies
