Re: Re: role of companion(s) is always crucial...
by venkat g on Oct 23, 2014 09:35 PM
For a couple who REALLY love each other, all this are secondary. Devotion to each other comes first (be husband or wife)
Re: Re: role of companion(s) is always crucial...
by wcpak on Oct 23, 2014 09:53 PM
Jain-saab,sexual needs anybody can fulfill but never emotional needs.
Re: Re: Re: role of companion(s) is always crucial...
by abhinav jain on Oct 23, 2014 10:14 PM
that's what my initial thought was, what must be his wife going through. how hard it must be for her?
it's dismissive to think real love can overcome this, etc. if there is a destiny known that a certain illness WILL get cured then it's different. but when you DON'T know - a person can breakdown after a while.
Re: Re: Re: Re: role of companion(s) is always crucial...
by venkat g on Oct 24, 2014 08:33 AM
Assuming it has happened to her (accident), a true lovable person would put herself in that shoe and think what husband could have done. If u truly love a person, you can conquer any emotions.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: role of companion(s) is always crucial...
by abhinav jain on Oct 24, 2014 10:36 AM
I know that's what everyone will do initially. But for 10, 15 years?
Just think of your own case. How long could you go on. At some point you would feel you deserve to feel good again, you are worthy of it. You have done good deed by taking care and now you should not feel guilty for trying to fulfill emotional or sexual void created after taking care of your camatosed husband or wife.
I will admit, I am not sure how long I can go on. I will take care of her and try to remain faithful, but till what point? At some point I will think this is all pointless if nothing happens.
