My dear Brother, A.Pandit, I am seeing that everywhere you have written offending messages for sania (sania..better remain in the bed till you learn some modesty and start respecting your religion). What happened , are you angry with yourself for not having born as a woman , I mean sports woman, and for not making a name in Indian as well as world Tennis as our sister Sania has done.Then dont repent like this . Keep your cool, think about the hardships your mother has gone through when she was expecting you, those 9 months were more tougher than your present time that you are wasting making such childly remarks about a person who has made us all Indians proud, like Sachin, Sourav, Sunil,Sreesanth,Shrikanth, Rahul and Co. and Kapil and Co. and many others.This life is given to us as human beings and we should be thankful to Almighty for that. What if we were made to be born as an animal then could you have talked the way you are talking today . No body is perfect , we all are mistake lovers but we should hate to repeat the mistakes again. Ask your mother ,after or when you were born how happy she was and how many dreams she had for you.Because you were a boy, she forgot all the labour pain,and she was more happy because our society considers it a distinction to give birth to a boy.Have you fullfilled any of her dream though you had more strength than a girl. Which sport or activity did you represent your country or state or your city or town or your village or even your locality?? So are you not happy that what you and I could not achieve and do to make our parents proud, India proud, All NRIs proud, our sister sania has done it and that too at this young age .Why you are hiding your emotions behind your harsh words.Respecting religion means respecting others , making them feel proud of you,working hard when others are just sitting and gossiping useless talks. I feel every mother must be desperate to give birth to a daughter like sania. So my brother Pandit, please dont spread the poison of your life in the life of others, Be good and do Good and talk good, then doesnot matter if you are a NOT a famous sportsperson but your mother will be proud of you not for being Boy but for being Good boy. Sorry and please forgive me if I have offended you but i just wanted my words to be an antidote against the poison that is filled in your heart by this society who I think must have made a fun of you sometime in your earlier life.If you are not happy then tell me the reason and I will try to make you happy at happyclub95 at rediiffmail.com. THIS LIFE IS GIVEN TO US ONCE , DONT WASTE IT AGAIN & AGAIN EVERY DAY .Do something to make others happy even if it is removing thorns from others path or helping old people or children and giving water to a thirsty animal.. Change your destiny with your own hands, dont expect the Almighty to change it for you..... your brother asif.
RE:This is for Mr.A. Pandit
by M K on Mar 06, 2007 10:45 PM
Dear Happy Club Member, I appreciate your concern for Sania who had made India Pride.I fully agree with your opinion. But with the responsibility she has attained at tender age, she has lots of pressure and expectations. What she supposed to learn from all these responsibilites and pressures is that she should utilise the opportunities more in a more effective way for climbing the career graph with consistent play as you see the game of Maria Sharapova, Serena Williams etc., What we observed in Sania is the lack of such focus & responsibility. She inclined more to the publicity & endorsements & fashions. I also do agree that Sharapova too did so many endorsements, but her consistency is not lost in the game. That is what is ultimately required. If Sania could attain this professionalism and maturity, I hope she can reign as an ever green Super Star in the Tennis World.
Please note that this is not a criticism, but a well wishing advice.
Dear Sister Sania, I feel very sad for your knee surgery. I pray to Almighty to give you courage and may you recover very soon. At this tender age you are taking so much pressure whether on the field or off the field. But you are a seasoned person now unlike the first time you faced the press and public. I would like to take this opportunity to say that now is time you can be mentally strong and sit and learn from your past experience where things did not work in your favour in 2nd or 3rd round. When you face challenges from higher ranked players on the court I advise you be cool and internally just keep talking with yourself that yes i can do it. Don%u2019t get irritated with self when you lose a point. By losing your cool you become more frustrated and then you tend to make more mistakes repeatedly because then you cannot concentrate on your strategy. If you be cool then your opponent starts thinking that how are you maintaining your mental balance and that%u2019s where she can make mistakes and then you can win. So be cool on the court, think and talk and promise to yourself that you will not repeat that mistake, return the ball at that point where you think it would have been difficult for you to return. Build the score, point by point slowly, don%u2019t rush ,be calm and make your opponent nervous. Lastly keep the smile on your face even when you lose a point, that will make your opponent think as to how you are smiling after losing a point and then she will be disturbed and she will lose concentration and then you can make her run all around the court and win. So win your opponent mentally first then in the match . SORRY I KNOW YOU HAVE GREAT COACHES and great players to guide you, I am very ordinary but this is what I used to do before 19 years when I used to win table tennis matches in college. When you win over your own self from the fear and nervousness then you can easily beat your foe. I from happyclub95 at rediffmail.com wish you more success than you have dreamt of. You have done us proud. Even Williams and Hingis have tasted Indian punch through you on tennis court, which no other Indian has done till today .GOD bless you and show you the right direction for winning many many more matches in life not only on court but off the court also. I wish I had a sister like you so I could tell the world '' I am a proud to be Sanias brother who has made us, all Indians proud''. All the best and I on behalf of all Indians wish you quick recovery and lots of Good Luck........asif
