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We need to look at divorce differently


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Raghavendra Ravi
apologist
by Raghavendra Ravi on Jan 01, 2018 09:08 AM

wasted space

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clinton lewis
Ur very narrow minded
by clinton lewis on Jan 01, 2018 01:54 AM

@ author ull understand when ur dad gives ur mom triple t

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anuradha
divorce cases in india
by anuradha on Dec 31, 2017 07:08 PM  | Hide replies

India is the only country in the world with many religions,languages& customs and where harassed married women feel harassed even in courts too after filingdivorce ppetetion seeking freedom from sadistic husbands physical& mental harassment even without any Alimony too.Even such kind of simple cases too drag for 8 to 10 yrs in the lower court itself mainly due to the collusion of both side Advocates to earn max fee ( as they charge for each case day even if it is only to take next hearing date) showing no sensitivity to the suffering of women petitioner.Respondent husband being male even when case is deliberately dragged by him only to harass the wife even after separation himself not affected at all by separation,as he finds many ways to fulfill his needs being MCP and society never finds fault with him,and some unofficially get married/some keeps female cook/servant maid in the house who serves all purposes,but wife can't do the same.Even after lower court grants Divorce without any Alimony after decade with good intention that husband won't have any case to appeal in higher court,the District court mechanically accepts the appeal filed by husband( whose intention is to show his male superiority in harassing wife for decades making her a mentally& financially broke spending all her savings in the process crossing remarriage age of 45.Is it not injustice to women petetioners of Hindu religion by our judiciary courts,why to talk about thhe injustice done only t

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anuradha
Re: divorce cases in india
by anuradha on Dec 31, 2017 07:24 PM
Even higher courts of judiciary should be sympathetic and sensitive to the suffering/humiliation meted out by sadistic husband and accepting mechanically appeal filed by cruel husband wantonly( already unofficially married another woman in temple) to harass her till she crosses marriageable age to take revenge and to show his male superiority.Learned judges in such cases prima facie could easily make out that husband filed appeal only to harass her /not to get remarried/make her mentally& financially broke,as husband is left Scot free without any monetary/upbringing responsibility .That's why 90% hapless unemployed harassed wives dread to approach courts for divorce from sadistic husbands spewing venom on the wives if they revolt against husbands and even courts too are of no help to get speedy justice to get her remarried to another suitable man of her choice.Not only Muslim women,but even Hindu women too are facing lot of injustice ,not given much publicity.Women should have the liberty to divorce from cruel sadistic husbands to remarry of her own choice in any religion.

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anuradha
Re: divorce cases in india
by anuradha on Dec 31, 2017 07:25 PM
Even higher courts of judiciary should be sympathetic and sensitive to the suffering/humiliation meted out by sadistic husband and accepting mechanically appeal filed by cruel husband wantonly( already unofficially married another woman in temple) to harass her till she crosses marriageable age to take revenge and to show his male superiority.Learned judges in such cases prima facie could easily make out that husband filed appeal only to harass her /not to get remarried/make her mentally& financially broke,as husband is left Scot free without any monetary/upbringing responsibility .That's why 90% hapless unemployed harassed wives dread to approach courts for divorce from sadistic husbands spewing venom on the wives if they revolt against husbands and even courts too are of no help to get speedy justice to get her remarried to another suitable man of her choice.Not only Muslim women,but even Hindu women too are facing lot of injustice ,not given much publicity.Women should have the liberty to divorce from cruel sadistic husbands to remarry of her own choice in any religion.

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anuradha
Re: divorce cases in india
by anuradha on Dec 31, 2017 07:25 PM
Even higher courts of judiciary should be sympathetic and sensitive to the suffering/humiliation meted out by sadistic husband and accepting mechanically appeal filed by cruel husband wantonly( already unofficially married another woman in temple) to harass her till she crosses marriageable age to take revenge and to show his male superiority.Learned judges in such cases prima facie could easily make out that husband filed appeal only to harass her /not to get remarried/make her mentally& financially broke,as husband is left Scot free without any monetary/upbringing responsibility .That\'s why 90% hapless unemployed harassed wives dread to approach courts for divorce from sadistic husbands spewing venom on the wives if they revolt against husbands and even courts too are of no help to get speedy justice to get her remarried to another suitable man of her choice.Not only Muslim women,but even Hindu women too are facing lot of injustice ,not given much publicity.Women should have the liberty to divorce from cruel sadistic husbands to remarry of her own choice in any religion.

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rajakumar dasma
Talaq talaq talaq
by rajakumar dasma on Dec 31, 2017 05:49 PM

It is explained like this"It is suitably supported by suitable supports under suitable conditions however sometimes unsuitable conditions may be suitable and hence suitably to to be viewed this suitable in suitable and unsuitablle conditions but somethimes suitable may become unsuitable and hence unsuitable need not be always suitable- talaq talaq talaq

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jkj
instant talaq
by jkj on Dec 31, 2017 03:27 PM

The author is looking at the issue with a very narrow vision: the injustice to women by this act. That is why he questions the wisdom of living with a man who severs relation instantly. The issue also involves decisions taken hastily and unwisely. That is why this method of separation is so dangerous. Combine this with the system of Halala for reconciliation, you have a very shameful and embarrassing scenario.Banning of triple Talaq is a solution to ensure considered decision for separation. Financial aspect also needs consideration. In Muslim community, women's financial independence is not encouraged. Mehar amount is mostly very nomonal. Therefore sustenance aspect of women is also to be paid due consideration

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ganesha jaguva
very rightly said
by ganesha jaguva on Dec 31, 2017 01:08 PM  | Hide replies

it infantalises marriage,.., i have seen so many not asking for divorce but living seperately from husband because they r afraid of the courts...
india has lot of useless politicians corrupt babus is because of courts .... taking very long to deliver justice. judges may be honest like mms but what they end up doing is allow scams all around.

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p c g
Re: very rightly said
by p c g on Dec 31, 2017 03:38 PM
Ganesha-ji, Exactly. The Court mis unaware of the Mafias behind the Sexploitation of Women and Men, especially using greedy relatives, ever since Dowry was banned.Forced Marriages are not illegal in India.Relatives of both Wife and Husband give and take "commission" for conducting marriages of "used and abused women or "useless" young men !!

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krishna gurumurthi
DIVORCE
by krishna gurumurthi on Dec 31, 2017 01:04 PM  | Hide replies

What Happens When a man/woman ABANDONS the spouse which is very prevalent in India without any divorce ??

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Super Funny
Re: DIVORCE
by Super Funny on Dec 31, 2017 02:52 PM
If both arefine why the Hallah? If not they can complain to court

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