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Diary: The Other Woman


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carianne
insecurity can it be over come or will it kill my relationship
by carianne on Jul 26, 2005 02:44 PM

My last relationship was terrible he ending up nearly killing me.It took me a year 2 get over it,if i'm over what he did at all? The man im now with is so different from my pass choice he's caring,hard working,can't do enough 2 please me, he is good with my son,& not afraid 2 tell everyone he loves me, he tells me all day which at times can be 2 much, but im lucky 2 find someone so right. But he's got a screw lose.we went out 2 the pub the other night we were having a great time then he got up and walked out, i chased after him & asked him whats wrong & like a confused child he started to cry & said he didn't know,but he's scared of losing me.i tryed 2 reasure him & carry on with the night but he kept crying & grabing me & rushing off it was embrassing & stupid and he had acted this way b4,in the end i shouted at him 2 just get a grip and leave me alone and i walked away, i went looking 4 him but he was gone, when i got home he had gone but had wiped blood everywhere ripped up all our photos and cut the beding he bought me into bits.Its quite scary,he's sorry & wants 2 sort his insecurity out, not drinking is a start, but can he change and stop it and should i stay with him?

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Dr Abhijeet Chauhan
Exceptional Piece!
by Dr Abhijeet Chauhan on Aug 04, 2004 12:39 AM


This is a fabulous article. And what makes it even better is its factual content.

Such things happen.... and unfortunately they happen a lot. Whether married or unmarried, the 'other friends' of a couple do come up with numerous situations to create a messy scene.

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sunithalal
good
by sunithalal on Nov 29, 2003 12:38 PM

goodone! very true, and many times we end up paying our time and energy for someone's insecurities;

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Seema
true
by Seema on Jul 24, 2003 06:02 PM

Its so true and the sad fcat you loose the freind in a situation like this. I did...My best freind was mail and then he got married. Im not even in touch with him anymore. Its sadder because I really miss him. It was good to have a freind you could talk everything to. I wish him luck for future though.


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just me
is his fiance crazy?
by just me on Jul 13, 2003 08:45 PM

Well, just because she seems like she is a crazy jealous fiance doesn't mean he isn't giving her subtle hints that she should be jealous. Some men somehow like the excitement they get from two women fighting over him. It's a real ego boost for him. The fact that he can make his fiance jealous without compunction on his part makes him a heel. Yes, she is insecure and needs to get over allowing a man to play with her emotions. But from the distance you are you really have no way of knowing what he is implying to her. It seems as though he has the puppy dog, sad-eyed syndrome. Poor me, my fiance is so jealous; she must be crazy. Well, why did he get engaged. The way I see it, you would do well to break off all communications with both him and her. She may indeed have a jealousy problem. Every woman wants to believe that she is his special someone. That's what marriage is all about.

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me
so true!
by me on Jun 27, 2003 02:27 AM

i really like ur article, cuz i can understand the probs u face!! my best friend is a guy too, and we face such difficulties too!

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Nihal Moraes
Fab article!
by Nihal Moraes on May 09, 2003 10:16 PM

Damn good article. I didn't read it the day it came out but just a couple of days later. Trust me I know how a platonic relationship can be misunderstood and this is a great article to bring out the misconception. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

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