this program is copied of western country.. some people reject weddings .. producer will face los of problem from parents and people of india such as rss, vhs, shiv sena bjp...will oppose such type of show
The concept of marriage is for losers. Mainly ugly people who can't get laid otherwise - one way of ensuring you have someone to have sex with whenever you are horny. Females do it to have security in this male-dominated world. Men do it for the sex-aspect, and to have so-called 'legal heirs' to their property. It is a scheme invented by those who imposed religion and politics on humanity. In the name of marriage, we have burdened the Earth's limited resources with so many, so many people. Why? Why was all this needed? Poverty, degradation of Mother Nature's resources, corruption, population explosion, the rich-poor divide, the unnecessary intrusion of the religious-political brigade in our bedrooms and lives - it has all been a grand scheme to exercise control and power on the people. Glad to see that people who see through this all are increasing in number. Here's to a more evolved, liberated, and controlled human race - who knows when to stop procreating!
Re: Marriages and Humans
by slayer slayer on May 14, 2009 09:24 PM
i do understand what u are saying but you don't see past that to think that marriage has a practical utility to life??..although u do have a point although ur overstretching it
Re: Marriages and Humans
by Jai Hind on May 22, 2009 08:00 PM
I do not agree with your views at all ! I think marriage is something which differs humans from animals. If you think marriages are just for sex or financial security then I think you really need to think in a braoder way. I do favor the live-in relationship , thats an awesum concept as it is. But in both cases lots of commitment and responsibility is involved. I think people who are against marriage are either scared of commitments or sunning away from responsibilties.
Re: Truth
by p k on May 14, 2009 04:26 PM
Why registered marriage only? Most marriages in India would be unregistered as people in villages would not even know about something called marriage registration.
True Love should be each other... This will resolve all the issue... If there is no true love, better they can go for divorce...unnecessary living with unhappy...
Marriage is for dumbos. Its like giving up all your freedom to someone else. Literally. ACtually guys dont understand anything about married life and go ahead with it, because, well, its a social phenomenon, espcially Indian guys. Then after 3 years, its a headache, and all husbands yearn to be free. And when the kid comes along it turns out there's no time for yourself at all. Its ridiculous. All guys plunging into marriage should seriously take note of this. There is actually no need to be married. Staying together sucks
Re: Dumbos
by Nishit Shukla on May 13, 2009 10:16 PM
hee hee hee man, it needs courage to come up with something like this, you got guts man, same views here too.
Re: Dumbos
by Amey Joshi on May 13, 2009 05:43 PM
Rediff moderator r u mad? Nothing abusive in my langauge, still reporting it for abuse. Shame on u!!!!
Re: Dumbos
by Amey Joshi on May 13, 2009 05:44 PM
Seems to be that either u have gone through some bad experience in ur life or u r just making out some sort of assumptions!!Well although I accpet ur views, but it is not always the same case! There are some factors on which marraige can be remain stronger and those are
1.Mutual Understanding between partners. 2.Love, and trust between partners. 3.Adjustment for each other. 4.Enough space provided to each other.
Most of the couple refrain from those things and then they keep on blaming each other.Hope u got it what I mean.
Seems to be that either u have gone through some bad experience in ur life or u r just making out some sort of assumptions!!Well although I accept ur views, but it is not always the same case! There are some factors on which marriage can be remain stronger and those are 1. Mutual Understanding between partners. 2. Love, and trust between partners. 3. Adjustment for each other. 4. Enough space provided to each other. Most of the couple refrains from those things and then they keep on blaming each other. Hope u got it what I mean.
Re: Re: Dumbos
by Sane Guru on May 14, 2009 11:24 AM
Amey, how many marriages provide enough space for each other and still keep loving. One of them turns possessive and dominating. You are right on all counts. Basically it turns out that marriage is for caring people, not freedom lovers
Re: Re: Dumbos
by krishnan paramu on May 14, 2009 08:50 AM
hi, in our indian situation with arranged marriages what happens is that yu find out later that a lot of things wont work and the marriage is not working smooth,marriage involes phyisical attraction to each other and mental,one leads to other,if someting dn,t work it sucks,so arranged can be a gamble as as men and women start thinking that what they got is what they want or expected.....well most compormise some don,t..but this is not always the situation...there can be great sucess also.
Re: Re: Re: Dumbos
by Sane Guru on May 14, 2009 11:28 AM
Krishnan, even in love marriages, it turns out that one of them is dominating and possessive. Lots of freedom and lots of love is what can make marriages work.
You are damn right about our culture. I have two marwari friends who got (had to) married when they were 21. After 5 years and two kids, both guys had lots of extra marital affairs. Parental dadagiri and lack of understanding. I got to realize that marriage is for caring and mature people. Not for everyone, not for freedom lovers
Re: Re: Re: Re: Dumbos
by Debashis Sharma on May 15, 2009 08:50 AM
In medical studies marriage is defined as a social license for two persons to fulfill their biological needs and create offsprings. At the age of 25-40 if one is financially well off,has all the opprtunities for sex, than he/she might consider marriage as nuisance. But my dear when we are in our sixties and alone with no one to even talk to, than one would realise what marriage is. Marriage is about companionship, everybody wants to be special for others in life, while it is not possible for every one to become a star in the eyes of all person in the society one can get attention from life partners. I am not saying that marriage refers to only the registered or ceremonial marriages, two people can be considered married when they stay together with each other faithflly long enough to share their life.(eg.Susan Sarandon-Tim Robbins) However such a stance is not generally accepted in india.Still marriage is for people for whom life is much more than sex and it comes at a price, however I do agree that the right time for a marriage is quite debatable issue, (I wont Marry before 30).
