Re: help
by Anand Bhatnagar on Jul 21, 2009 11:43 AM
Hello, If you are attracted to her and if she too is attracted towards you, then there should be no problem going ahead with the relationship provided you are open to the idea of your partner having an extra marital affair !
Re: Re: help
by abacha on Jul 21, 2009 11:47 AM
Anand we are hypocrites of sorts. We can have an affair, but would become angry if our partner has it. I know its wrong and childish. The woman I have a liking for is no extreme beauty, but still she has swept me of my feet. I don't know why!!
Re: Re: Re: help
by Anand Bhatnagar on Jul 21, 2009 11:50 AM
If you feel you cannot handle a scenario where your partner has an EM affair, then you cannot have one either !!!! Rules are Rules ! It will be embarrassing for you at a later date, leave aside the beauty of your "new love" !!
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by abacha on Jul 21, 2009 11:53 AM
Anand, perhaps u are right. But like a teenager i hv lost it completely. A person can think in a sane manner when his mind is functioning in a proper manner, but i seemto have lost it all. i feel iam thown back into the time when i was a teenager.
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by Anand Bhatnagar on Jul 21, 2009 11:57 AM
I am sure you would agree that every teenager needs support and help from others who understand. Hence, what you need is a open talk with your partner on this topic to find out what "that thing" is in your "new love" that you liked the most so that your partner can have the same to offer. Alternatively, you need to seek expert medical opinion on perversions.
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by abacha on Jul 21, 2009 12:00 PM
Thanks Anand, yours is truly a very honest advice. I feel this is a battle I'll have to fight on my own with myself. Perhaps be more strong willed.
Re: help
by Nitin Patidar on Jul 22, 2009 05:49 PM
best solution is shoot your self, when thought like that you mentioned come in mind , or if u cant then tell me , i will shoot you
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