RE:GUD LUCK
by peace on Jul 29, 2005 05:40 PM
The point is not whether she should allow let her children see her father or not . Answer of course is YES. She has now allowed Saif to see the children in her house so she is not against it .But whether they should be allowed to go where her father GF lives, is a different question. We can judge saying that she is insecure women, may be she is, but put I say who is not. Haven't you seen mothers getting jealous when the kids/husband listen more to mom-in-laws. If not, then get a reality check done. Everybody likes to talk and think and to an extent even understand great things like we should not be insecure with children and we should let go things, it will not help anybody and all .. but do we really really FEEL it .. FEEL it from inside. Don't we feel jealous when we are in so called "love". We speak/think great things about love .. but don't we FEEL exactly the opposite. Don't we feel jealous don't we kill, don't we fear, don't we hold other tight and take away allindependence when in "love". We do. Only a hypocrite can say he/she doesn't. So everybody out here is insecure. Infact more insecure you become, more you "love". Nobody knows what real love is.
Hi saif u r a good actor but also try to be a good human being life is a mirror of ur own doing don't do anything that will spoil ur image and u become a bad example u leave Amrita for some other girl if Amrita will do same thing then what about ur children u don't have right to give birth to anybody if u can't take the responsibility money is not everything
RE:Saif grow up: Mothers don't lose children
by not important on Jul 08, 2005 11:39 PM
Children always love their REAL MOTHERS. If a mother feels she will lose her children if she allows the father access to the kids, is indeed a very insecure woman. This fear, which translates into bad mouthing the other parent, only creates terrible children who learn to be bad human beings. No one is Condoning a husband who leaves his wife for another woman. That is horrible thing but we are not concerned with the break up of the marriage now. Amrita and Saif should keep their differences aside when around their children. Their children will grow up as better human beings than bad mouthing each other. These children don't need to be told who did what; children are smarter than we all give them credit. They will figure out all themselves. If Saif left his wife for another woman, he will pay a price for it; the children don't need to be dragged into it by Amrita or her family.
Saif grow up and stop saying things like my gf is better than my wf. If your at peace spread peace around. I think you are finding more peace in talking bad about Amrita than in your relation with gf. And take responsibility of your life, talking you wanted your life to be this way that way is of no use. Amrita has every right to be annoyed .. after all she is a women that too hurt and deeply wounded,no matter how great things she talk, she must get deeply hurt seeing you with Rosa,accept it, its natural.She has lost her husband to a beautiful may be more nicer women.she is scared she will lose her children if she send it to your house where this women lives. She is scared that as she has lost her husband she will lose her children. And she may be worried about how her children will react when they see you getting close to another women,when they are use to see you close to their mum. She is right . She should not send her kids when Rosa is around you. She is doing right thing. You did what you have to.Let her do what she wants to. She want to work let her work. She is leaving her kids with gmother not any 'relative'.Your father is hero and her gm relative .. not fare.
Amrita, When a relationship breaks,not matter who is at fault, children should not be used as pawns. Children should be allowed to have a healthy relationship with both parents. Saif will always be their father and you their mother. Denying Saif access to kids is a typical desi sytle of venting revenge when a marriage has ended. You are not being fair to the children by not allowing them to spend time with their father. Children need both parents; they want and need both parents regardless of who has hurt whom? Children grow emotionally strong when neither party bad mouths the other. So Grow Up!! And think what is good for the children and not about what is making you angry. Your anger may be justified but do not use kids as pawns to get back at Saif.
Kudos to you,Saif! You've done a wonderful job in the movie! And to all of you there, Parinneta's much better than Paheli! True Saif, you've had a tough time;hope you get thru it.You come across as a straight forward, down-to-earth guy,and maybe thats just what's harming you in this industry. Anyways, I just hope you will get the film award this time.You were really good!And you could learn from Shahrukh and Rani to give interviews-you know, the hype created about the movie-Paheli!!!
