Parents are to blame. they pampered their kid(s)and instead of being parent they wanted to be friends. one kid per family is also an issue as the kid gets all the attention from all elders. portrays the pathetic position of confused indian parents. Not having upheld the Indian values, paying the price. Also equally to blame - wedding has become a show of clothing and jewellery and it has become a money making opportunity of a business.
I believe root cause of children's behavior after marriage is purely on "material society" but not excluding parents who also wants their kids to be always smarter(over smart) than everyone & allow them to grew in the so called dreamed sophisticated society. Kids always follows parents at home & teachers at school. So these both environment must be realistic rather than materialistic. Period.
Re: My son get married..
by Jayaprakash Balan on Aug 20, 2018 11:16 AM
Rightly agree because unlike earlier parents who used to ensure that more than earning money children should instill good qualities like culture, respect, behaviour, appreciating whatever is available, these days parents just want their children to come first and be one above than others and earn lots of money and lead a materialistic luxury life. So, naturally children grow up that way and then definitely they expect parents to be as per their expectations to match their status in society and teach them to change. So, parents should not complain. Because life for children today are as free as a bird careless about everything except whatever they require.