I understand that there is pressure on this generation but if there is no conflict at home and if the parents too update their knowledge and skills, these children can be handled easily. Gone are the days of unconditional respect and love from kids. So we need to understand this and do not expect them to be like us with blind love for parents. Then there is this issue of bad mouthing friendship between classmates if they happen to be opposite sexes. This pushes them to hide everything and get into trouble.
I feel sad for today's children. In our time, i.e., 1950 or so, we finished school in the 11th standard and then went to college to do our Intermediate. before going in for a degree course in an Arts college or in a professional one. These 2 years in Intermediate helped us to mature gradually into University level and I can definitely state that we did not behave like schoolboys but tried to emulate the grown-ups in the college. It was a vital and important transition that is now missing!
COMPETITION IS MAIN PROBLEM IN TODAYS LIFE.WHO WILL MAKE MORE MONEY,WHO WILL GET CLASS 1ST,WHO ARE BEST AMONG THESE.WHO WILL REACH FIRST ETC ETC THE ABOVE MINDSET PROBLEMS ARE CREATING HYPERTENSION IN EVERYBODYS LIFE. FIRST THING IS WE MUST LEARN AND TEACH OTHERS THAT -SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE.TO WIN THE RACE FOR MONEY,EDUCATION AND TO REACH ANY GOAL NEEDS TIME.NOWADAYS THEY THINK NO BODY HAS TIME.ALL WANTS TO DO AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. TECHNOLOGY IS MAIN DRAW BACK FOR THIS COMPETITION MINDSET.GIVE TIME TO REACH THEIR GOALS.GIVE TIME TO COMPLETE THE RACE.THERE IS NO HURRY FOR ANYTHING THAN EXCEPT DEATH.
India has achieved the following things in the last 25yrs as per my observation. 1) More number of third class citizens are generated. These people doesn't have basic civic sense. They spit,urinate and making the country into garbage. These contributions are from all sections, irrespective of caste,class, religion,education, etc. 2)Now, our country has 60%poor(who doesn't have bank account,house,basic civic amenities and are leaving with daily wages basis. These peope have no future). 30% middle and upper middle class(Struggling for existence and avoiding to become poor) and only 10% rich(these people have all facilities, enjoying without doing any work at the expense of others life and creating more wealth by increasing more poor people) 3)Country is directionless. Nobody knows where we need to take the nation. Remember, today Mercedes,BMW,AUDI etc all these cars each worth 1.5 to 5.0crores are coming on road to 10% rich people. One such car is creating 1000 poor people. So as these numbers increase the poor people will also increase. And remember new induction of poor people are coming from middle class. The day is not far where we end up in the situation of pornistan where they have only two class. 85% poor vs 15% rich. May be if we continue in the same economic policies, india will reach this situation in next 10yrs.
India has achieved the following things in the last 25yrs as per my observation. 1) More number of third class citizens are generated. These people doesn't have basic civic sense. They spit,urinate and making the country into garbage. These contributions are from all sections, irrespective of caste,class, religion,education, etc. 2)Now, our country has 60%poor(who doesn't have bank account,house,basic civic amenities and are leaving with daily wages basis. These peope have no future). 30% middle and upper middle class(Struggling for existence and avoiding to become poor) and only 10% rich(these people have all facilities, enjoying without doing any work at the expense of others life and creating more wealth by increasing more poor people) 3)Country is directionless. Nobody knows where we need to take the nation. Remember, today Mercedes,BMW,AUDI etc all these cars each worth 1.5 to 5.0crores are coming on road to 10% rich people. One such car is creating 1000 poor people. So as these numbers increase the poor people will also increase. And remember new induction of poor people are coming from middle class. The day is not far where we end up in the situation of pornistan where they have only two class. 85% poor vs 15% rich. May be if we continue in the same economic policies, india will reach this situation in next 10yrs.
1)Get involved in l.o.v.e for more than 3 years. After getting m.a.r.r.i.e.d and finishing h.o.n.e.y.m.o.o.n, rift will start between them. 2)Finally come to a situation where both cannot go together as they start losing interest on each other. 3)Get d.i.v.o.r.c.e within 2 - 3 years. She will get good package(compensation) 4)Now she will revoke her old b.o.y friend who was also moving with her but could not m.a.r.r.y. 5)Suppose if he is engaged, then she will register in m.a.t.r.i.m.o.n.i.a.l. s.i.t.e.s mentioning c.a.s.t.e.n.o.b.a.r,anyprofessional,any m.a.r.t.i.a.l status. 6)very few will succeed in this. 7)Those who don't get then have either l.i.v.i.n.g together or d.a.t.i.n.g. Parallel to this if she is good in income and profession no problem. This arrangement will continue. 8)If not then as usual work as b.a.r.-g.i.r.l,p.o.l.o-d.a.n.c.e,n.a.k.e.d.d.a.n.c.e,s.t.r.i.p.-t.e.a.s.e.,m.a.s.s.a.g.e-c.e.n.t.e.r.,c.a.l.l.-center/g.i.r.l (both are same),I.T.E.S, B.P.O,I.T(Data entry) etc.
1)Get involved in l.o.v.e for more than 3 years. After getting m.a.r.r.i.e.d and finishing h.o.n.e.y.m.o.o.n, rift will start between them. 2)Finally come to a situation where both cannot go together as they start losing interest on each other. 3)Get d.i.v.o.r.c.e within 2 - 3 years. She will get good package(compensation) 4)Now she will revoke her old b.o.y friend who was also moving with her but could not m.a.r.r.y. 5)Suppose if he is engaged, then she will register in m.a.t.r.i.m.o.n.i.a.l. s.i.t.e.s mentioning c.a.s.t.e.n.o.b.a.r,anyprofessional,any m.a.r.t.i.a.l status. 6)very few will succeed in this. 7)Those who don't get then have either l.i.v.i.n.g together or d.a.t.i.n.g. Parallel to this if she is good in income and profession no problem. This arrangement will continue. 8)If not then as usual work as b.a.r.-g.i.r.l,p.o.l.o-d.a.n.c.e,n.a.k.e.d.d.a.n.c.e,s.t.r.i.p.-t.e.a.s.e.,m.a.s.s.a.g.e-c.e.n.t.e.r.,c.a.l.l.-center/g.i.r.l (both are same),I.T.E.S, B.P.O,I.T(Data entry) etc.
Dev Lahiri has perfectly understood the education system of India today. I totally agree with his views and opinions. These days, we are making every child a robot and trying to excel in marks when they do not learn the basic of humanities. Though to an extent education system is to be blamed as it has not got evolved with changing times, but education system is not completely to be blamed nor do the teachers. Its we parents who are to be blamed completely and society as a whole. Because its the parents who wants their children only to get a job and earn huge bucks and materialistic luxuries of life like car, house etc. than wanting them to be a good human being first which was what our parents and parents of earlier generation expected and wanted their children to be. A child cannot be a patriotic Indian unless and until he learns, understands, appreciates and feels the history, civics and geography of India. These subjects are there only for marks and not for making the children understand India. Also to some extent the breaking of joint family has made people for individualistic, selfish, narrow minded especially the children who lose out to automatically learn the basics of human life, i.e. love, sharing for others, sacrificing for others, understanding others problems etc. The only way to make today's children become a good individual is make social service a compulsory and important subject equal to Maths and science and do away with marks for admission.
Dev Lahiri has perfectly understood the education system of India today. I totally agree with his views and opinions. These days, we are making every child a robot and trying to excel in marks when they do not learn the basic of humanities. Though to an extent education system is to be blamed as it has not got evolved with changing times, but education system is not completely to be blamed nor do the teachers. Its we parents who are to be blamed completely and society as a whole. Because its the parents who wants their children only to get a job and earn huge bucks and materialistic luxuries of life like car, house etc. than wanting them to be a good human being first which was what our parents and parents of earlier generation expected and wanted their children to be. A child cannot be a patriotic Indian unless and until he learns, understands, appreciates and feels the history, civics and geography of India. These subjects are there only for marks and not for making the children understand India. Also to some extent the breaking of joint family has made people for individualistic, selfish, narrow minded especially the children who lose out to automatically learn the basics of human life, i.e. love, sharing for others, sacrificing for others, understanding others problems etc. The only way to make today\'s children become a good individual is make social service a compulsory and important subject equal to Maths and science and do away with marks for admissio
Dev Lahiri has perfectly understood the education system of India today. I totally agree with his views and opinions. These days, we are making every child a robot and trying to excel in marks when they do not learn the basic of humanities. Though to an extent education system is to be blamed as it has not got evolved with changing times, but education system is not completely to be blamed nor do the teachers. Its we parents who are to be blamed completely and society as a whole. Because its the parents who wants their children only to get a job and earn huge bucks and materialistic luxuries of life like car, house etc. than wanting them to be a good human being first which was what our parents and parents of earlier generation expected and wanted their children to be. A child cannot be a patriotic Indian unless and until he learns, understands, appreciates and feels the history, civics and geography of India. These subjects are there only for marks and not for making the children understand India. Also to some extent the breaking of joint family has made people for individualistic, selfish, narrow minded especially the children who lose out to automatically learn the basics of human life, i.e. love, sharing for others, sacrificing for others, understanding others problems etc. The only way to make today's children become a good individual is make social service a compulsory and important subject equal to Maths and science and do away with marks for admission.
