All dear viewers, Daily we see in news, this crime occurs frequently and may be much more as they are not reported to media. many of people have their voice to find out the cause of rape and put theirs views accordingly, in most of cases you might have seen the people who comments on cause of rape are either victims and third parties, but what I saw that the criminal comments are hardly or never published in Media. Why? and unfortunately that is the right cause of Rape spoken by a criminal. There are many factual reasons of rape, are driven from the mental status of criminals who commit such crime.
Its not entirely that if we raise our sons properly, there will be less of rapes. No. Though there may be double standards existing for sons and daughters even in own houses, do not think majority of parents do not raise their sons properly or do not teach them to respect girls or women. Rapes happen because of males feeling dominant due to power, influence and frustration. And whether a parent teaches a son to respect girls or not, whatever he will do will be his own instinct. To avoid rapes, the most important thing is daughters and girls have to be made more courageous and strong to fight off and shout when any such impropriate thing is happening with her and then at that very moment others support her atleast her own community, i.e. women. If all the rape cases are seen in practical, much of the time its the girls fear while anybody touches them or takes them to any secluded place that gives advantage and courage for rapists or molesters to do the act with her. Secondly, in 100% of cases either before the incident or after the incident it is the women community that the victim doesn't get support. Simultaneously fear of law and strong punishment should be there in rapists or molesters mind which will come only if police force are alert, brave and uncorrupt to grab the criminal before hand or immediately after any incident happen. Teaching sons to respect females is just a small point in whole scenario.
Our society which is still now male dominated must support the cause of ensuring safe environment so that all walk without fear.
Our Govt has failed in some way to instill sense of confidence among its female as everyday we see some heinous crime to surface in national media. Our Nation might forget the Abhaya the most shocking incidence that took people to streets hope our Govt takes care such incidences never recur. prevention is better than cure.Most important is role of Media instead of just publishing an incidence like this or that of Unnao the media must lunch a war to force Govt to enact severe punishment for perpetrator of such crimes.
Vaishnavi it is very humbling to read about your experience & for you to even report it to the media knowing fully that there are perverts & misogynists who will comment flippantly without understanding your trauma. Salute to your bravery & courage.
It is high time that women start reporting rape, molestation,groping etc to the people they trust,and make a grit to take on their tormentors.The society should also start making learn men how to behave with women,> It is the mothers of boys whoshould teach their boys how to behave with women , but it rarely happens in our country.Lets hope for the best so that every women is worshipped as goddess Lakshmi in our country and moms play a role to see that their boys behave well.