Mam,my sister is with emotional abuse .she fall in love with wrong person and we react hardly so she emotional abuse.So we want to recover him from emotional abuse .How to behaive with him and what should taken oercautions .Please give proper suggestion and how to handle the other person i.e.boyfriend
Thank you rediff for this wonderful article about emotional abuse. It has helped create awareness about this type of abuse which is so hard to prove unlike physical abuse.
I too had gone through such abuses. The abusers were my immediate family members, colleagues. It seemed to me that the abusers enjoyed hurting others. I have severed all relations with them.
It can include anything from verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics, such as intimidation, manipulation, and never being pleased.
Blaming, shaming, and name calling are all kinds of verbal abuse which emotionally hurt a victim. The victim may experience severe psychological effects.
Re: Emotional abuse
by Abhinav Jain on Feb 14, 2016 09:34 PM
Omg... Mirror of my 32 years. What a father can do you cannot walk out of like in other relationships... You have sister and mother to think of...
Yes, simple solution is WALK AWAY. and dont bother to clearify yourself or give explanations. its of no use, and dont reconsile ! because after few days of weeks that abuser will be back to abuse. and dont hesitate to make police complain if abuse persisit and abuser dont allow you to go out or give threats. (hope police do understand this problems)
Re: Emotional abuse
by on Feb 13, 2016 04:02 PM
Of course in many cases even female is abuser. lets say 20% ? any comment from anybody who have authentice figures ?
Re: solution to overcome emotional abuse
by on Feb 13, 2016 04:07 PM
Really it is not easy. people in surrounding , friends , silings , parents should understand and support. Timely police complaints with these abuses will be useful in future, and in some cases complaint in earlier stage will cure the problem altogather as abuser knows that it can bounce back. keep notes of events and action by whats app and emails. it may come handy. do not delay in informing Parents and close relatives for the fear of "BADNAMI"
Re: emotional abuse
by Mike Teflon on Feb 11, 2016 11:25 PM
saer, change the atmosphere, live with like-minded peoples, practice relaxation and yoga, exercise for 30 minutes a day. Eat healthy food and engage in a regular job/activity.
More importantly be carepul with ur wife. Thank you saer..
