people will realize these words by their parents once they lost them. Rediff don't make people to feel inferior. we don't want to lick the western culture. be proud to your culture your traditions and your country.
Re: i am proud of these word
by Musalmaan Masala on Dec 14, 2016 10:05 AM | Hide message
What has western culture got to do with licking your parents and living off them? Being independant is more important and showing them that you can do it on your own while still caring for them is what western culture is. There are old age homes in the west which give better care than what you could do. I have heard Indian children saying "Kab maregi budda/buddi" when they get fed up of them but cant do anything about it because of "parampara" and what will people say. We Indians are hypocrites and will always remain like that.
Re: i am proud of these word
by Musalmaan Masala on Dec 14, 2016 10:06 AM | Hide message
What has western culture got to do with sponging off your parents and living off them? Being independant is more important and showing them that you can do it on your own while still caring for them is what western culture is. There are old age homes in the west which give better care than what you could do. I have heard Indian children saying "Kab maregi budda/buddi" when they get fed up of them but cant do anything about it because of "parampara" and what will people say. We Indians are hypocrites and will always remain like that.
Re: i am proud of these word
by Musalmaan Masala on Dec 14, 2016 10:08 AM
What has western culture got to do with sponging off your parents and living off them? Being independant is more important and showing them that you can do it on your own while still caring for them is what western culture is. There are old age homes in the west which give better care than what you could do. I have heard Indian children saying "Kabmaregibudda/buddi" when they get fed up of them but cant do anything about it because of "parampara" and what will people say. We Indians are hypocrites and will always remain like that.
The Parents take care because there is no one else to do so. Unlike in western countries where a citizen is entitled to several facilities, here in India one has to fend for himself. Thats why the parents try to protect their siblings.
too much emotional attachments interferes in personal(after marriage) life.your writings actually frustates .my parents give me enough space,no interference and we love each other truly not selfishly.
Poor Divya Nair. !! I pity her as she missed out on parents love and caring. Divya atleast now you can grow up as you are a writer - no doubt a mediocre one still a writer and hope you would become a good, caring and affectionate parent soonest
You are totally wrong. systems have changed. Nobody interferes. Everybody has right to live their own lives. I think you are from 18th century, Sir. Let everyone do whatever they want to do. - Satish Kumar Sharma, Ludhiana.
